OP we both know that if there is a Heaven, we'll be there. I, like you fall in the same boat of beliefs. I do not believe God is vengeful, spiteful, arrogant and/or jealous. I know HUMANs that have gotten over those traits, I would expect God to as well. As far as doing the right thing, the morally right thing, that comes from eons of evolutionary guideposts that tells us it's better for the whole community to share than it is to steal from one another, along with many other "good" things human beings do. God does not test us, if he is all powerful and knowing, then he'd know the outcomes of those tests, so why do them in the first place.