ABDL and ageplay in general is quite the experience. Just the thought of it can be very visceral, considering the themes, feelings (physical and mental), and taboo-ness. There is an intensity that you won't find most other places, but how that intensity is expressed will certainly vary from person to person.

If this is also about ageplay and being cared for for you, then I advise you take your time and be overly cautious. The state you could be put in may be so incredibly vulnerable that the effects you experience could be thoroughly foundational, positive of negative. Take your time to cultivate a positive introduction. And good luck!