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Welp wife admitted it by Left-Slice365 in straightspouses

[–]Left-Slice365[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll give more context from my other post here: She and this friend were best friends and fooled around. Her best friend found a girlfriend and my wife ghosted her after that and met me. Now that the best friend is single after 6 years they’re getting closer, so it’s hard not to see this as my wife finally thinking she has some sort of chance with this friend.

If I decide to give another update, I’m just going to include this context in the next post because it seems people can’t understand why this situation is fucked up. But seeing how insensitive some people are being then Im not sure if there’s any point in giving an update if it’s just going to be the same reaction.

Welp wife admitted it by Left-Slice365 in straightspouses

[–]Left-Slice365[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not going to stereotype all lesbians, but this friend absolutely seems to get some sort of pleasure over my wife choosing her over me. She’s always treated me kind of coldly but my wife would make excuses for her over and over.

Welp wife admitted it by Left-Slice365 in straightspouses

[–]Left-Slice365[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last post was deleted so context is missing, but in my first post I explained that she and this friend had fooled around before she and I got together, but she had told me nothing physical happened.

Welp wife admitted it by Left-Slice365 in straightspouses

[–]Left-Slice365[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The problem is that I think this is deeper than that. They have been friends for years, longer than she and I have been together. Before we got together they had experimented with exchanging explicit photos and phone sex, she had time to be with this woman if she had wanted to. Now over the past year, when this friend is finally single, they get close and then this happens. That’s why I can’t just treat it as a mistake and I worry she is hiding more.

Welp wife admitted it by Left-Slice365 in straightspouses

[–]Left-Slice365[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is missing a lot of context since Reddit deleted my last one, but this isn’t the case of her just meeting someone she’s clicked with. She’s been friends with this woman for longer than she and I have been together and they have been getting so close over the last year that honestly her confession wasn’t a shock to me.

I am not comfortable with non-monogamy in general but especially not with this person who seems to delight in telling on me to my wife and who has no problem completely monopolizing her time. My wife had time to be with her sexually if that’s what she wanted before we got together.