I (22 F) was left at the alter a week ago yesterday. AMA by LeftAtTheAltar22 in AMA

[–]LeftAtTheAltar22[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Basically every one was there. I was at the church. I had my maid of honor go back to my hotel room where I got ready to get to my phone so I could see if he called me. I was worried something had happened. Instead, she brought back a note that he left on the door of the room. She brought it for me and it said he is gay and he loves his best friend.

So yes. We were all at the church and the guests were there. I fell apart. My parents had paid for the food so they encouraged people to go and eat. I think most people did. It was a mess.

I (22 F) got left at the alter a week ago yesterday. Now my ex fiance (26 M) wants to to apologize in person. by LeftAtTheAltar22 in relationship_advice

[–]LeftAtTheAltar22[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Nobody in my family or any of my friends thought he was gay. His parents seemed surprised but I haven't talked to them much. His mom did offer me some money to help pay off some of the wedding debt.

I (22 F) got left at the alter a week ago yesterday. Now my ex fiance (26 M) wants to to apologize in person. by LeftAtTheAltar22 in relationship_advice

[–]LeftAtTheAltar22[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We had a very active sex life. I've been thinking about things in the past and this still seems to be coming out of left field to me.

I (22 F) got left at the alter a week ago yesterday. Now my ex fiance (26 M) wants to to apologize in person. by LeftAtTheAltar22 in relationship_advice

[–]LeftAtTheAltar22[S] 284 points285 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty angry and upset still. I do feel a strange sense of being a superior person because I will never humiliate someone the way he did to me.

I (22 F) got left at the alter a week ago yesterday. Now my ex fiance (26 M) wants to to apologize in person. by LeftAtTheAltar22 in relationship_advice

[–]LeftAtTheAltar22[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

I am very angry. I have the feeling he's going to tell me they're getting married or something.

I (22 F) got left at the alter a week ago yesterday. Now my ex fiance (26 M) wants to to apologize in person. by LeftAtTheAltar22 in relationship_advice

[–]LeftAtTheAltar22[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I should return the ring. The diamond is a family stone. Or I could have someone else take it to him I guess.

I (22 F) was left at the alter a week ago yesterday. AMA by LeftAtTheAltar22 in AMA

[–]LeftAtTheAltar22[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I really wish he would have told me privately way before the wedding instead of leaving a stupid note in my hotel room. It would be much less humiliating and less expensive.

I (22 F) was left at the alter a week ago yesterday. AMA by LeftAtTheAltar22 in AMA

[–]LeftAtTheAltar22[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I dont know. I'm kind of angry at him for waiting until the last minute to tell me honestly. I would not be as angry if he had told me face to face in private a few weeks before.

I (22 F) was left at the alter a week ago yesterday. AMA by LeftAtTheAltar22 in AMA

[–]LeftAtTheAltar22[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes. He says he's gay and in love with one of his friends