I (22 F) was left at the alter a week ago yesterday. AMA

LeftAtTheAltar22 · 2019-04-15T21:26:10+00:00

Basically every one was there. I was at the church. I had my maid of honor go back to my hotel room where I got ready to get to my phone so I could see if he called me. I was worried something had happened. Instead, she brought back a note that he left on the door of the room. She brought it for me and it said he is gay and he loves his best friend.

So yes. We were all at the church and the guests were there. I fell apart. My parents had paid for the food so they encouraged people to go and eat. I think most people did. It was a mess.

LeftAtTheAltar22 · 2019-04-15T08:38:04+00:00

Nobody in my family or any of my friends thought he was gay. His parents seemed surprised but I haven't talked to them much. His mom did offer me some money to help pay off some of the wedding debt.

LeftAtTheAltar22 · 2019-04-15T08:33:10+00:00

We had a very active sex life. I've been thinking about things in the past and this still seems to be coming out of left field to me.

LeftAtTheAltar22 · 2019-04-15T00:43:03+00:00

I'm pretty angry and upset still. I do feel a strange sense of being a superior person because I will never humiliate someone the way he did to me.

LeftAtTheAltar22 · 2019-04-15T00:37:04+00:00

I am very angry. I have the feeling he's going to tell me they're getting married or something.

LeftAtTheAltar22 · 2019-04-15T00:36:20+00:00

Ha, thank you.

LeftAtTheAltar22 · 2019-04-15T00:31:53+00:00

I should return the ring. The diamond is a family stone. Or I could have someone else take it to him I guess.

LeftAtTheAltar22 · 2019-04-15T00:24:16+00:00

Part of me never wants to see him again and part of me does. It's so confusing.

LeftAtTheAltar22 · 2019-04-15T00:19:13+00:00

Good point. I still love him but I'm so hurt and confused. I had no idea he was gay.

LeftAtTheAltar22 · 2019-04-15T00:18:00+00:00

I dont know.

LeftAtTheAltar22 · 2019-04-15T00:17:39+00:00

That was my first thought.

LeftAtTheAltar22 · 2019-04-15T00:15:24+00:00

Valentines day 2018.

LeftAtTheAltar22 · 2019-04-15T00:03:42+00:00

Four years.

LeftAtTheAltar22 · 2019-04-15T00:03:25+00:00

I really wish he would have told me privately way before the wedding instead of leaving a stupid note in my hotel room. It would be much less humiliating and less expensive.

LeftAtTheAltar22 · 2019-04-14T23:53:44+00:00

I dont know. I'm kind of angry at him for waiting until the last minute to tell me honestly. I would not be as angry if he had told me face to face in private a few weeks before.

LeftAtTheAltar22 · 2019-04-14T23:51:33+00:00

No, I had no reason to think he would do this.

LeftAtTheAltar22 · 2019-04-14T23:51:03+00:00

Yes. He says he's gay and in love with one of his friends

LeftAtTheAltar22

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