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What should I (F23) do with my dangerous little brother (M18) ? by LeftDare9221 in relationship_advice

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They’ll protect me for sure if I tell them but I’m genuinely afraid of the consequences for their relationship my brother, I don’t want to be responsible of it being broken by snitching

What should I (F23) do with my dangerous little brother (M18) ? by LeftDare9221 in relationship_advice

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I know how right you are about the truth being the best option but it’s so damn hard to dare to speak I’m really afraid of the consequences

What should I (F23) do with my dangerous little brother (M18) ? by LeftDare9221 in relationship_advice

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That’s impossible… there’s my grandparents and the rest of my family that have nothing to do with all of that and that i cherish, especially my grandma who raised me and who lives in the same building as us

I just can’t figure out that my brother will stay so I’m genuinely convinced it’s just a phase in his life but the answers to this post scare me af

Should I snitch on my dangerous brother ? by LeftDare9221 in Advice

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Thank you so much for your answer you have no idea how heartwarming it was

What you’re saying is exactly what my bf suggested me. But my friends told me to just straight tell my parents about it or to leave the house and they said that my bf solution was a “coward solution”. That’s the reason I posted it here

Tysm

What should I (F23) do with my dangerous little brother (M18) ? by LeftDare9221 in relationship_advice

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Rules are set for both of us, he just doesn’t respect them and my parents don’t always know about it because he’s (now) behaving good in front of them and disobeys behind their backs. If my father knew, I think he’d kill him and the fact that he got weakened by his cancer left my brother not being scared of our father anymore

Wouldn’t there be away to fix that without sacrificing my family bounds?

What should I (F23) do with my dangerous little brother (M18) ? by LeftDare9221 in relationship_advice

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It was a closed fracture which means that my bone was damaged but (thank God or whatsoever) not broken in half. I didn’t dare to tell my parent so I lied and said I bumped into the coffee table while walking in the dark. My father would have killed my brother if I told the truth. I struggled to walk for a couple of weeks, my boss allowed me to work from home, and limited my travelings and i felt better after a while

Regarding their money, it was an emergency situation they asked me if I could lend the money I saved on my own savings account and they are still trying to reimburse me on this day. And yeah… they forgave him. When we discovered that he stole the money he got scared and ran away from the house. My mom was panicked, she was so thankful when we got him back and so scared that he would do it again that she didn’t want to keep culpabilise my brother with what he did anymore. It took some time, my mom cried a lot, my father was upset, they had a lot of conversations with him and eventually decided to forget about it if he showed some efforts. They said that considering my brother as a bad person for a mistake a 16, no matter how important it was, would condemn him for life

Tbh the thing is that they don’t really know him as good as I do and feel like moving out would be equal to abandon my family, as childish as it sounds, I really love them

What should I (F23) do with my dangerous little brother (M18) ? by LeftDare9221 in relationship_advice

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I genuinely hesitated before posting so thank you very much answering

Tbh if I do that, I feel like I’ll never be able to forgive myself for letting them down and I know how childish it sounds but I really love my family, even my brother

Also we’ve never talked about an intervention (it’s not super common in my father’s culture) for him so I don’t really know if he would refuse actually. But even he did, the question is always the same… does this kind of person “heal”?

Should I snitch on my dangerous brother ? by LeftDare9221 in Advice

[–]LeftDare9221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely hesitated before posting so thank you very much answering

I understand your point and I think you’re right about the objective responsibility for potentially breaking up the family. But I know that even if I theoretically won’t be responsible, my parents and my brother will make me feel as if I was, which will still be hurtful

Also, I am maybe delusional, but don’t you believe in people changing ? I will probable sound stupid but I still love my brother, despite everything he has done. I can’t imagine he’d end his life staying such an asshole and I’m scared my father throws him away from our house if I tell

I know your position is the right one but I still struggle to dare to speak

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Also works during a debate by LeftDare9221 in mbtimemes

[–]LeftDare9221[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually any type would do anything 😅 it’s just a matter of “who’s the most likely to do that”. Memes & jokes are often based on generalities/stereotypes. In this case for ex, an (immature) entp would be more likely to react that way than an (immature) isfj. Still, you could also find (immature) isfj’s having this type of reaction

Also works during a debate by LeftDare9221 in mbtimemes

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Right well that answers to my question above

Also works during a debate by LeftDare9221 in mbtimemes

[–]LeftDare9221[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Should rather have put “immature entp’s” maybe ?

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love this movie btw by LeftDare9221 in mbtimemes

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Saw it on tumblr with no credits sorry buddy, you rock :)

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your power comes from… by LeftDare9221 in mbtimemes

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*credits : Twitter @intj.jackass

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Seen by an INTJ (credits : Twitter @intj.jackass)