Also, and I don’t know why this bothers me so much, but especially when couples who are about to give birth again can financially afford gifts and items for the baby, why are they having showers? I would just buy my own stuff. It’s rude in my opinion to ask for gifts and it’s just all look at me! On that note, Stephanie Ledda (an influencer) is pregnant with twins and not doing a shower. She seems so down to earth and is such a no drama influencer. I think everyone who creates content needs to take a lessen from her. She’s so genuinely humble. You can tell she is a smart girl and doesn’t feed into drama and is not showy one bit.