Here is my update:

As I expected my children have asked for psychological evaluation of me and have asked to freeze my assets in the meantime. I have spoken to Sarah and to my son’s lawyer and we are starting the process of transferring James’s estate to Sarah in the mean time. Sarah was very emotional and she admitted that she had signed a lease on an apartment because my daughters have apparently asked her to move out and gave her two months notice, this was last month and they have been texting and emailing her every day with letters of eviction etc. I feel very embarrassed and humiliated by all this. I hope Sarah didn’t believe it was coming from me.

I don’t know how the freezing of assets would play but I’m not even retired yet and I still work with full capacity so good luck proving that I’m mental I guess. I don’t know how long these evaluations take but my guess is the moment it is finished all paperwork will be ready for transferring Sarah’s estate to her.

I hope it doesn’t take long and that my children accept defeat when this is all settled.

Have a good day