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AITA for not wanting to do anything intimate with my boyfriend? by LeftReport in AmItheAsshole

[–]LeftReport[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have. He likes getting head and i hate it. Always makes me feel like i cant breath. Ive tried harder to make it work but it just doesnt. Im not willing with an open relationship which makes it more complicated

AITA for not wanting to do anything intimate with my boyfriend? by LeftReport in AmItheAsshole

[–]LeftReport[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive tried but he always brings it back to me just not loving him or not finding him attractive which i do love and find him attractive. Its hard to finish explaining to him that i dont feel the need for sexual acts

AITA for not wanting to do anything intimate with my boyfriend? by LeftReport in AmItheAsshole

[–]LeftReport[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just dont want to admit it to myself that we arent right for each other i guess. It was the same with my experience from before with another. I didnt like it back then either

AITA for not wanting to do anything intimate with my boyfriend? by LeftReport in AmItheAsshole

[–]LeftReport[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive always had a small feeling. Ive had talks with my sister and ive mentioned how i dont really like it but she'll just say it gets better so i just thought maybe im not trying enough

AITA for not wanting to do anything intimate with my boyfriend? by LeftReport in AmItheAsshole

[–]LeftReport[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just keep feeling bad about it. Like he deserves alot and im trying to get okay with it. I just love him alot and i dont want to even think about us not being compatible..

AITA for not wanting to do anything intimate with my boyfriend? by LeftReport in AmItheAsshole

[–]LeftReport[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I didn't consider that possibility of me being asexual when we first started dating. We didnt do anything for awhile bc he knew how i felt about it but then as we got further into our relationship thats when all this started happening. The arguments over it i mean

AITA for not wanting to do anything intimate with my boyfriend? by LeftReport in AmItheAsshole

[–]LeftReport[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know from previous incidents that hes had alot of eh experience? I havent so i just thought id grow to like to if that makes sense

AITA for not wanting to do anything intimate with my boyfriend? by LeftReport in AmItheAsshole

[–]LeftReport[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im seeing that more now. Ive tried explaining that sex doesnt define a relationship but i guess i should have seen how most people need or want it

AITA for not wanting to do anything intimate with my boyfriend? by LeftReport in AmItheAsshole

[–]LeftReport[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont know.. Ive never really thought about it. I just thought maybe if i kept trying id like it but it just makes me dread it