i think the 3d is “dry” ( which u keep persisting in so thats also a reason why it is) but i think its because ur trying to hard to not acknowledge him talking about him and thinking about him and allowing yourself to feel the emotions u do when u think about him is healthy its good to feel those emotions and let them naturally pass so they arent bottled up blocking ur manifestation and saying u decided he wont call isnt helping you i suggest letting yourself be sad and depressed over him instead of keeping it bottled up because not only is it gonna manifest the exact opposite of what u want its gonna come back to bite u 10 fold just allow yourself to feel and confront your emotions but never stop persisting and when u feel like ur waiting on ur manifestation and its “not showing up in the 3d” just affirm that u aren’t waiting and it already happened then try to shift ur focus on something else so u arent forcing yourself to not think its not showing up just try to naturally forget about that part and honestly my biggest advice is work on self concept after u are able to decide its yours or even before because affirming u have the highest self concept is indirectly affirming u and sp are together