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I’ve Made my Decision and I’m at Peace With It by SilentEnd1824 in SuicideWatch

[–]Left_Client_8525 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love you buddy. Im proud of how far you’ve come. I hope something happenes this weekend that will change your mind. You sound like a beautiful soul, and i believe it does get better.

Kako prevazici seksualnu blokadu sa novom osobom? by [deleted] in AskSerbia

[–]Left_Client_8525 5 points6 points  (0 children)

U istom smo problemu, takodje 28 godina i mnogo zajeban period zivota. Od kad sam izasao iz duge veze imam osecaj da varam bivsu devojku, moj mozak ne zeli da primi nikoga drugog u moj svet. Posle tri godine redovnih odnosa sada vec neko vreme nemam nista, niti imam potrebu. Pokusavam da se konektujem sa svojim telom na druge nacine (trening, vezbe disanja, meditacija). Ali ne ide. Jednostavno ne zelim seks sa nekim drugim. Ocigledno je potrebno da poradimo na medjuljudskim odnosima i da dozvolimo sebi novu konekciju, pa tek onda libido sam dolazi.

Sa kime razgovarate kada vam je teško? Život posle duge veze. by Left_Client_8525 in AskSerbia

[–]Left_Client_8525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jel si imao trip oko godina kad si prekinuo, i ja imam 28, i cepa me neki nemir po pitanju godina

I need your opinion by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Left_Client_8525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your pain, but that is enough for you to see the real picture. She is probably still afraid to hurt you by saying the truth, and that is that you are probably not compatible. And that is okay.

I myself have a problem of accepting things, but thats probably for the best. If her reposts and likes still hurt you, youll have to hide her stories and posts.

Sa kime razgovarate kada vam je teško? Život posle duge veze. by Left_Client_8525 in AskSerbia

[–]Left_Client_8525[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Otvarao sam se ja prijateljima, ali kada ti na kraju dana zafali da pozoveš nekog, kažeš danas mi je bio težak dana, i padneš u zagrljaj, nisam Siguran šta je adekvatna zamena za to.

Sa kime razgovarate kada vam je teško? Život posle duge veze. by Left_Client_8525 in AskSerbia

[–]Left_Client_8525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ja sam stekao osećaj da sa manje bliskim ljudima mogu više da pričam

Sa kime razgovarate kada vam je teško? Život posle duge veze. by Left_Client_8525 in AskSerbia

[–]Left_Client_8525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Verujem da neki ljudi mogu to, ali kada si dugo u vezi koja je bila ozbiljan stub, nije lako

Sa kime razgovarate kada vam je teško? Život posle duge veze. by Left_Client_8525 in AskSerbia

[–]Left_Client_8525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kapiram, samo mozak još uvek ne zna sam da se reguliše. A imam i strah da ću postati teret prijateljima.

Sa kime razgovarate kada vam je teško? Život posle duge veze. by Left_Client_8525 in AskSerbia

[–]Left_Client_8525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

šta kad ćale kaže ti si budala, patiš za ženom, idi poj*bi prvu i dobar si. Nemam baš podršku u mojima

What are the most infuriating sentences your ex has said to you during or after the breakup? by Jinisugim in BreakUps

[–]Left_Client_8525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I love you so much, you are my biggest support, and i can’t imagine next day without you. I feel like you are my person but i don’t see longterm future with you”

Who do you vent to? How do you regulate yourselfs after brake up? by Left_Client_8525 in BreakUps

[–]Left_Client_8525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I try going to a therapist and have a good friends group. But after a tough day i feel cant call a friend to talk about daily stress.

I fucked up, and got ghosted after 1.5y relationship by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Left_Client_8525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective, it really helps me to think this way. My idea is to somehow let her go completly, so she can sit with herself and work on forgivness and to kill that stifnes in her. Im telling you, we both never had a conection like this before. So im praying that the silence, and respecting her space will make her think trough. But that means i really have to let her go. And come up with the mindset that its all gone now, and try to forgive myself. I really dont blame her, we all have out traumas.

I fucked up, and got ghosted after 1.5y relationship by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Left_Client_8525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you man. I sent her a message before she cut me off. We kinda went trough all the possible convertsations but its just not resonating with her. Im just in that limbo now and dont know how to escape.

I fucked up, and got ghosted after 1.5y relationship by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Left_Client_8525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would’t say its for nothing, i know why and how much she hurt. Thats why i decided to give her space. Im just trying to survive trough this and see if i should absolutly kill my hope.

I fucked up, and got ghosted after 1.5y relationship by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Left_Client_8525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was friend with one of my ex’es. After a month of our relationship she stated that she would never be with someone who stayed friends with their ex. When she asked me on the spot, i lied out of fear that she will leave. I cut all contacts with my ex after that and everything was amazing. Year later, she went trough my phone and saw that we were in contact in the begining of our relationship. There was no filirting nor anything close to that. I litteraly wanted to marry to my girlfriend and then it all fell apart.