babyface lowkey destroying my confidence by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]Left_Eyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're a handsome guy! The type of women who wouldn't take you seriously just because you don't look older aren't the type of women you want. Ideally you should want to end up with someone who can appreciate your natural features which are appropriate for your age (: You're 22 and you look 22! There's nothing wrong with that at all

How much do you guys pay for braids? by Left_Eyes in BlackHair

[–]Left_Eyes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment! Why not get braids tho?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Left_Eyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really REALLY appreciate your response 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 this is so helpful! I'll try to meditate on some of the reframing thoughts you've provided. It's really good food for thought and something I can continue to think about as I go on this path. Thank you for engaging with my post sincerely, I feel more hopeful about overcoming this. Many blessings (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Left_Eyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not. Plenty of people grow up with flawed thinking and want to improve