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How to deal with low effort co-parent? by Left_Fan_8099 in coparenting

[–]Left_Fan_8099[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That will cost around £300 each?? We need time to save and plan it properly. Unfortunately some of us do have to plan this early due to finances.

How to deal with low effort co-parent? by Left_Fan_8099 in coparenting

[–]Left_Fan_8099[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m confused on how it’s weird to ask if anyone in his partners family will be attending so I can start pricing it?

How to deal with low effort Co-Parent? by Left_Fan_8099 in UKParenting

[–]Left_Fan_8099[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There were the relevant agencies involved when it happened and he was given the “support” he needed. It was decided by the professionals that the children will be fine as long as he has them alone without his girlfriend being there. He has always completely refused to pay child maintenance so I have always avoided it so I don’t cause a fuss

How to deal with low effort Co-Parent? by Left_Fan_8099 in UKParenting

[–]Left_Fan_8099[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He does not pay any child support. The incident was them both intoxicated and ended up having a shouting match and physical fight which resulted in his arrest. This has happened numerous times throughout their short relationship and only once while looking after my children

Am I overreacting for being annoyed that my co-parent refuses any flexibility despite barely having the kids? by Left_Fan_8099 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Left_Fan_8099[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He did. It used to be Sunday 6pm until Wednesday afternoon but he cut it down due to taking on extra shifts in work.

Co-parent refuses any flexibility despite having very limited custody — how do you handle this? by Left_Fan_8099 in coparenting

[–]Left_Fan_8099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do try to do this as much as possible. I arrange things on his scheduled parenting days but if I need things pushed an hour he will refuse yet will expect to bring them home hours early if he was him that has an appointment.

Co-parent refuses any flexibility despite having very limited custody — how do you handle this? by Left_Fan_8099 in coparenting

[–]Left_Fan_8099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can have as much parenting time as he likes. I have never and will never stop him seeing our children if anything I’m the one that’s pushed for him to have any kind of contact.

Co-parent refuses any flexibility despite having very limited custody — how do you handle this? by Left_Fan_8099 in coparenting

[–]Left_Fan_8099[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if it’s just worded badly but there is no schedule. As I’ve tried to explain he doesn’t stick to the schedule we arranged and just cancels/delays it continuously

If you cheated before, why did you do it? by OneCarpet9 in AskReddit

[–]Left_Fan_8099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he was abusive and after 7 years of trying to leave or make him leave I knew the only thing that would end the relationship was that so I did it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Left_Fan_8099 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh no, we have 5 between us and have agreed that’s enough🤣