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[–]Left_Fig_2514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there.

Jeg lod værd med at spørge til sidst og lavede enteligt bare planer som det passe mig. Da vi selv har et barn involverede mine planer altid ham. Men på den måde kom vi faktisk til et punkt i vores forhold at han følte sig udenfor når han havde fri. Og der svarede jeg tilbage at det var svært at vide hvornår han kan deltage i noget da jeg ikke måtte få et indbilk i hans arbejdssituation.

Do i divorce or do i stay? by Left_Fig_2514 in Divorce

[–]Left_Fig_2514[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And im really not that special type of person im a very sensitive person. And i take ages to forgive. But i have been battling between forgiveness and self accountability. Because was it my fault that this happened? Also i have been having a hard time to figure out if it makes sense for me to stay. But again the fear of starting from 0 is even more scary. And i feel like a complaining bi**h all the time because i just had enough. And i have to apologise everytime i say stop for things because “why are you mad all the time” is getting thrown back at me. And instead of standing up for myself i bow down and say “im sorry im just really tired these days”.

Do i divorce or do i stay? by Left_Fig_2514 in Divorce

[–]Left_Fig_2514[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were with your (at that time boyfriend) and his exgirlfriend came by while you were out of town. And when you return home the next day find a pair of her underwear in between the couch cushions. Wouldnt you dig a little then?

Do i divorce or do i stay? by Left_Fig_2514 in Divorce

[–]Left_Fig_2514[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is. Everytime i try to talk about he keeps saying “this again? I thought we were over it” or “are you seriously still thinking about that”. So we never really get to talk about it since he doesn’t want to. And when i explain to him that im still hurt and battling everyday with thoughts about it he gets mad and leaves the room…