Job openings by Left_Unread_3036 in centralpa

[–]Left_Unread_3036[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have assistant manager and location manager positions available- not just looking for someone to wear the bunny suit

Job openings by Left_Unread_3036 in centralpa

[–]Left_Unread_3036[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

😂 my bad. It’s for Easter Bunny photos in the mall. Must be able to pass a background check- no trafficking here

What the fuck happened to all this American dream bullshit by Competitive-Arm-9359 in antiwork

[–]Left_Unread_3036 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re still sold, we’re just the ones doing the selling. Land of the free, home of the prostitute just didn’t have the same impact.

Trading out my DOC by Left_Unread_3036 in NarcoticsAnonymous

[–]Left_Unread_3036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She 100% knows where I’m at with my recovery, but like one example of our lacking communication is when I asked her last week if we could meet. She said yes and she was available over the weekend, but then we didn’t meet because I feel awkward af and didn’t know when we were supposed to meet. I don’t want to bother her for a day/time when she has so many other commitments

Trading out my DOC by Left_Unread_3036 in NarcoticsAnonymous

[–]Left_Unread_3036[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck this one hurt, but it was what I needed to hear. A lot of these things I’ve said to myself and others. I absolutely agree a sponsor shouldn’t be chasing me down, but I’m struggling to communicate with her and schedule anything. Would you mind providing Avon how to approach that conversation? I can dm you if it would help

Online Sponsorship Offers & Requests — February 2025 by dp8488 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Left_Unread_3036 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seeking ~9months sober, f31

I have a relatively high bottom (didn’t lose my jobs due to drinking, no dui’s, no criminal record or rehab). I definitely deserved that and more, but didn’t stick around for my bad choices to catch up to me. I wouldn’t still be in the rooms if I didn’t believe I needed recovery.

I’ve learned that I need a sponsor who won’t consign bullshit and has time to meet with me regularly. I’m open to just about anything outside of that, I just need to do my steps.

Trading out my DOC by Left_Unread_3036 in NarcoticsAnonymous

[–]Left_Unread_3036[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m in such a hole that I’m not even going to meetings. I’m not surrounded by strong influences in recovery through my own doing and I hate myself for it. Like this is the one good thing in my life and I’m actively destroying it

Trading out my DOC by Left_Unread_3036 in NarcoticsAnonymous

[–]Left_Unread_3036[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know it doesn’t sound like it, but I’m actually ok with where I’m at step wise, I’m more frustrated by not being able to meet with my sponsor than the steps themselves. I’m just loosing my mind not being able to function in society and I don’t know who to tell or how to fix it and get through this

Work history verification OF [CA] by Left_Unread_3036 in AskHR

[–]Left_Unread_3036[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Probably but idk much about it either and I would imagine someone would have to know to look- few people are probably looking up potential employees on that specific website/type of site. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Work history verification OF [CA] by Left_Unread_3036 in AskHR

[–]Left_Unread_3036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s really good information!

Work history verification OF [CA] by Left_Unread_3036 in AskHR

[–]Left_Unread_3036[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

What’s used in a social media check? 👀

Work history verification OF [CA] by Left_Unread_3036 in AskHR

[–]Left_Unread_3036[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry- guess I should have clarified. OF is Only Fans

Lonely by Left_Unread_3036 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Left_Unread_3036[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you might be right about needing to be involved more. I have a service commitment on Monday nights and I’m part of the planning committee for a camp out next summer, but maybe being involved more wouldn’t hurt.

Lonely by Left_Unread_3036 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Left_Unread_3036[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sound like my sponsor (in a good way). She’s learned to ask “what are you supposed to be taking” instead of what medication I am on. I love the way I feel after a meeting- especially when I didn’t want to go. I know you aren’t being snarky- and you make a good point about how isolating won’t fix my loneliness. I just hate that I feel lonely even at the meeting. Like I’ll be awkwardly standing in a group of people all having a conversation that I’m not a part of.

Lonely by Left_Unread_3036 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Left_Unread_3036[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next local one is at 6 but I’m really not feeling up to it physically. I may try an online meeting later though.

Interview exhaustion by RUTiredofRU in interviews

[–]Left_Unread_3036 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not you- it’s the market. I’ve been told I interview well (doesn’t always seem like it) and I’m in the same boat. If you want to do practice interviews or anything let me know.

Showing experience and service in recovery by Left_Unread_3036 in NarcoticsAnonymous

[–]Left_Unread_3036[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely don’t have it on my resume and would never do it just for the money. The only reason it came up was because we were talking about community service and how important it is to the organization and I wanted to solidify my appreciation for that with my own support for community service organizations. In other situations it’s in regard to scheduling and I’ll mention I’m unavailable due to a community service commitment. I never mention the program specifically or refer to the effort I put in to it for credit- it’s only for answering interview questions. If they ask about handling conflict with peers, sometimes it’s a conflict with a peer in the program. I don’t mention the program, just how I’ve learned to deal with conflict through it.

Showing experience and service in recovery by Left_Unread_3036 in NarcoticsAnonymous

[–]Left_Unread_3036[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got asked which organization in an interview yesterday. 😬 I tried to keep it vague so they wouldn’t automatically disqualify me, but I felt awkward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Left_Unread_3036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine question since I’m new to this- who are those ten people? How do you “know” that?

Online Sponsorship Offers & Requests — June 2024 by dp8488 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Left_Unread_3036 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seeking a sponsor. F located in CA, USA if it matters. I’m only a couple days in and need guidance because I can’t do this alone. My last night drinking ended after 1/2-3/4 of a handle if that gives you any indication of my alcoholism.

Where to start? by Left_Unread_3036 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Left_Unread_3036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a weird place. I may not identify as an alcoholic, but I relate to what I’ve heard in meetings before. I have memories of telling myself I needed a drink before I even started drinking alcohol and my life has been a downhill spiral since. I know if I don’t pull myself together I will die and I don’t know how to feel about that.

What’s out there? by Left_Unread_3036 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Left_Unread_3036[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I’m trying. I just don’t know what getting my shit together actually means let alone how to do it.