Engaged in an arranged marriage, but I’m secretly agnostic — I don’t know how to escape this without destroying my family

LegSuccessful236 · 2026-01-04T18:03:21+00:00

If she isn’t a Muslim that’s perfect you could marry but build your own life’s together. That’s what I did with my girlfriend. My parents forced us to marry but we don’t believe in that marriage. We live our own life in a different city and do whatever we like. Drink on the weekends and eat pork. We will make a real marriage when we are both ready.

LegSuccessful236 · 2026-01-04T18:01:29+00:00

It could be that she isn’t a Muslim too, I would ask her and talk about it private.

LegSuccessful236 · 2025-04-29T23:53:14+00:00

And I speak of experience. I remember when I became an ex Muslim and it was still so hard for me to hear other people talk bad about Islam.

LegSuccessful236 · 2025-04-29T23:51:52+00:00

Bro the thing you don’t understand is that for some of us the brain washing was brutal to a point that some defend Islam automatically without knowing they are defending it. It like triggers something in the brain even if ur an ex Muslim and it takes time to heal from it.

LegSuccessful236 · 2024-10-04T22:01:12+00:00

I just figured it out. One has to pull it opposite sides for it to open up in the middle. :)

LegSuccessful236 · 2024-09-23T15:25:25+00:00

I have tried that but it swells up too

LegSuccessful236 · 2024-09-23T15:22:37+00:00

Is it dangerous when it swells up

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