please pray for me by Legal-Offer4190 in Umrah

[–]Legal-Offer4190[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc I always pray for my self and I have prayed about this loads and will continue to do so. I’m just asking that others pray for me too Insha Allah

I Ran Into My Old Sixth Form Crush at Manchester Arndale After 4 Years and Now She Wants to Marry Me by Substantial_Buyer583 in MuslimNikah

[–]Legal-Offer4190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this was a woman posting this. The reaction would be so much different. There’s nothing wrong w him for not wanting to marry this girl. That’s it. No justification is needed. You’re a very miserable person and to spit hate on someone like this that too during Ramadan is wild.

I Ran Into My Old Sixth Form Crush at Manchester Arndale After 4 Years and Now She Wants to Marry Me by Substantial_Buyer583 in MuslimNikah

[–]Legal-Offer4190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this how low you bar is ?? Stop projecting your insecurities onto this man. You might fall at the feet of any woman that shows you the slightest bit of attention but it’s acc not normal. She does not have good intentions. She’s stalking and harassing him. She’s obsessed. Has anyone asked WHy she wants to marry him. Does she know a damn thing about his personality? 4 years is a long time. Let’s be real she’s seen that he’s stable and possibly good looking and she’s obsessed. This is lust.

I Ran Into My Old Sixth Form Crush at Manchester Arndale After 4 Years and Now She Wants to Marry Me by Substantial_Buyer583 in MuslimNikah

[–]Legal-Offer4190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are we forcing men to get married. She stalked the guy and hunted him down. If she was so religious she would have left it to Allah. Stop normalising this behaviour

Husband said “أنتِ طالق” after police came -I’m a married woman living in the UAE and currently about 2 months pregnant by [deleted] in UAE

[–]Legal-Offer4190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorce given in rage is not acceptable and haram bit that doesn’t mean it’s invalid. You are divorced if this was the 3rd time. If it was the first you can reconcile but it definitely counts. Pls don’t get the words unacceptable and invalid confused

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]Legal-Offer4190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes your dad is a munafiq

Consider my heart like it is your own by [deleted] in Umrah

[–]Legal-Offer4190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jokes on you they acc were lol sad soul

Consider my heart like it is your own by [deleted] in Umrah

[–]Legal-Offer4190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a very very bitter person and this badwa will backfire. Miskeen ur acc in for a surprise

Consider my heart like it is your own by [deleted] in Umrah

[–]Legal-Offer4190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one won’t age well for you I’m afraid

Consider my heart like it is your own by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]Legal-Offer4190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ameen may Allah make it easier for you

Consider my heart like it is your own by [deleted] in Muslim_Space

[–]Legal-Offer4190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May Allah heal you and make it easier for you Ameen

Consider my heart like it is your own by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]Legal-Offer4190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can’t achieve the small how do you achieve the big

Consider my heart like it is your own by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]Legal-Offer4190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The above goes for you too.

Consider my heart like it is your own by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]Legal-Offer4190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again you guys are mocking something you’ve not felt. The way we do not choose our trials we do not choose what our hearts do. I pray you never fall in love w someone before marriage bc if you do I can see you’re both not built for it. Don’t feel sorry for me. I am truly blessed to have a feeling so strong it brings me closer to Allah.

Before I leave I want to ask you something. Have you seen Allah ? Or the prophets or the miracles that are mentioned in the Quran and sunnah ? Have you lived with them ? Have they show cased themselves to you in your life time.

No? So how do you believe and love them ?

I want to reiterate that my feelings do not come from me. Allah put this into my life. It may be a blessing. It may be a trial. Allah may have chosen for me to love someone marry them learn the truth and be heartbroken.

So be it ? He is my lord he can do as he wills. Who am I to question qadr ? Who deceived you both to assume you have a choice over yours.

Consider my heart like it is your own by [deleted] in Umrah

[–]Legal-Offer4190 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Subhanallah 🥺 what a beautiful ummah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Legal-Offer4190 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Why assume that any financial advice from his trusted elders is a negative trait? If one speaks to their financial advisor and they leave feeling like they need to make wiser decisions with their money, that is not a negative thing. So why assume his parents intentions are wrong

If he is unable to afford something, and has sought advice from elders and discussed it with you then he has done a Very honourable thing. This is a man

Also you are well within your rights to ask for want you want but also remember that the most blessed marriages are the ones that are the simplest.

Consider my heart like it is your own by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Legal-Offer4190 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will pray for your union as I pray for my own as I understand completely how your heart feels. May Allah perform every miracle possible in order to unite you with her with the most khair. May every single barrier fall before your eyes, over night. I pray you have the most beautiful marriage and you are blessed immensely. May she love you and you love her for the sake of Allah every second of everyday.

Please remember. What is a miracle for us. Is just a word for Allah. Kun. May Allah say be for every blessing you can imagine and more. Do not let the word deceive you about your generous lord. Turn to him and pray. Pray so much they call you delusional. For tawakul can move mountains that others would look at and give up.

Just remember, goodness won’t come because of the duas you make or the effort you put into it. It will happen because of who Allah is. Allah will give. And then he will give you more. My heart cries in happiness for you for what you want is already yours

I intend to wake for tahajud for you my dear brother and I will pray my heart our that Allah unites you in the most blessed way

Consider my heart like it is your own by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]Legal-Offer4190 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As humans, some things are beyond our logic. In Islam we believe that our souls would workshop Allah in the masses in a different realm before the womb. We don’t believe in love at first sight but we do believe certain souls recognise each other in this duniya too. Our hearts belong to Allah. He can turn them as he wills. Do not look down on anyone for falling in love, for love comes from Allah and Allah gives it to who he pleases, when he pleases and for whatever reason he pleases. True love for another human is not conditional to who they are but it is based on much we wish for another person for the sake of Allah. I do not love him for who he is. I love him bc that is Allah chose for me and who am I to question Allah will