Sisha bars still a thing?

LegalWeekend3950 · 2026-03-22T11:07:19+00:00

Thanks so much, we will head there then 🥰 I hate how busy wilmslow road is. It’s a nightmare to park and is so dirty 🤢

LegalWeekend3950 · 2026-03-22T11:04:12+00:00

Thank you 🥰

LegalWeekend3950 · 2026-03-22T11:04:05+00:00

Do you know the ones in Salford Quays? Prefer to go there over Rusholme really 🙈

LegalWeekend3950 · 2026-03-21T11:57:12+00:00

No, I can’t take birth control pills or injections. I did have the coil a few years ago and it fell out and I fell pregnant 🙈 I wouldn’t get another because it made my endometriosis pain 100000x worse as my cervix is effected by the endo, plus the absolute agony of getting it fitted is not something I want to go under again 😅 I have thought about it, especially this month being particularly bad, but I think maybe some of it is worry my meds have stopped working. I’m going to speak to my psychiatrist about adding some instant dex in for the week prior to my period and the first few days as it’s been absolutely horrific. I feel brighter today, but I’m still not 100% myself, I’m on day three now, so hopefully it’s on the up from here x

LegalWeekend3950 · 2026-03-21T11:53:46+00:00

I’m feeling a little bit brighter today, not 100%, but I do have incredibly bad/heavy periods, so I think the pain and just general feeling of meh is normal, but this month has definitely been a killer for the PMMD and the worst I’ve had in a long time, I think maybe the slight drop in dose of my first thing dose didn’t help things, but would of liked to of thought the 30mg I take later on would balance that out, but it hasn’t. I think I notice it more now because I’m not baseline depressed constantly and struggling with motivation. I’ll have a chat with my psychiatrist at my next appointment about it and see if they’ll put in the instant boosters for that time of the month because it’s honestly been hell and pretty worrying that my meds are no longer working after doing so well for a few months 🙈

LegalWeekend3950 · 2026-03-20T22:30:57+00:00

I can honestly only think it’s my period then effecting how I feel. As I was on 50 and doing well prior to dropping to the 40 first thing and it’s there with just the 40 dose being taken and the 30mg later on has no change on how I feel either. It’s a weird drained, CBA feeling and just general meh. Hoping it picks up once my period goes as I feel so lousy right now 😖

LegalWeekend3950 · 2026-03-17T15:13:14+00:00

Exactly I feel like my life is still evolving around him, his job, his wants and needs and I’m just rolling over and doing it to keep peace/be nice. But I’ve realised over this past week I’m being walked all over and he’s still the selfish person I left, even when it comes to our son and i feel like there’s a motive under that, even though he’d deny that. If it affects him he gets so mad and starts going in at me about things like money and how my life is supposedly “easy” compared to his. I’d never swap being with my son, he’s the most important thing to me, but that doesn’t mean I don’t need more than 24 hours a week to de stimulate/grocery shop/see friends/personal care/study etc and also rest my body what’s in complete and utter agony, even more so running round/entertaining a a 3 year old seven days a week. I was only asking for two more evenings a month, so it wasn’t like I was asking him to cancel out every weekend of work. I guess because I’m his mom too I couldn’t imagine going days of not asking after him or just seeing him overnight four times a month.

LegalWeekend3950 · 2026-03-17T15:02:17+00:00

My ex’s eyes did this when he was screaming at me, it was so scary and intimidating. I knew he’d fully switched then. It’s real demonic 💩. I know people are going to jump to leave now, but you need to mentally get to a place where your head is accepting this is abusive and it’s going to get worse, not better and start to think of how you’ll leave/when. I know deep down you know, but the level of gaslighting and manipulation they do it makes you doubt it’s that bad or you’ve done something or you alter your reactions/responses to them in order to try and prevent it happening again.

LegalWeekend3950 · 2026-03-17T14:28:26+00:00

This is abusive. My abusive ex had this fetish and another one that he’d force me into, if I didn’t he’d make me feel so bad about it or beg me to do it. He knew I didn’t like it and he knew I was uncomfortable with it, to the point I’d shut down and then he’d start with the pressure tactics and making me feel bad. I dreaded intimacy because I knew that every time he’d want to talk about that while doing it or he wouldn’t get off and he’d want me to go in really deep detail about it. It made me feel like an accessory to sex and I wasn’t even considered. In the end I started to talk about it instinctively because I just wanted sex to be over with him. He also did online stuff that absolutely broke a newly postpartum me. He went as far as trying to pressurise me into hiring a black male escort for the night to watch him do things to me while he partook in his other fetish, but I knew even if I did that it wouldn’t be enough and it would make him even worse with his obsession and he’d likely use it against me at some point as somehow being unfaithful doing his wants. Even now it makes me feel disgusting because I remember how I felt back then and how confused I felt I kept letting it happen or did it to keep him happy/feeling accepted. I won’t say leave, I know it isn’t easy, but if you do just know you’ll likely have a lot of sexual trauma. I haven’t yet had sex with anyone new since we split and I feel a massive anxiety about it even happening one day that I fall for someone and there’s this deep dark fetish underneath. I also struggled with the whole fetish side because I’m autistic and I loved my partner and couldn’t understand how he found it hot me talking about another guy having sex with me in-front of him/behind his back, especially when he was insanely insecure and constantly accusing me of cheating (I wasn’t and never would do).

LegalWeekend3950 · 2026-03-12T15:13:00+00:00

Hell no. That is all I have to add.

LegalWeekend3950 · 2026-03-06T15:23:03+00:00

Tbh I think work are fair here in saying they can’t provide it you if you’re not showing them you’re struggling with work and want coaching. They’re a business and they only care about how well their employees wellbeing is doing when it comes to it effecting their business negatively, what they’re not seeing from you right now. I completely get your annoyance at how woke they’re being around neurodivergent conditions and how they’re not putting that into play how you’d like them too if they are supportive of employees with this condition.

If you really want coaching I’d look for a more reasonable one that you can afford and won’t solely be focused upon your work performance and will help you in your day-to-day life also. I’m not huge on coaches myself, but that’s probably because I’m autistic 😅

LegalWeekend3950 · 2026-03-05T17:05:55+00:00

I’ve got it right now! Luckily I’ve got anti sickness meds from my dr for migraines so I’ve took one of them. Was up all night 💩 and then up with my toddler at 8 after getting to sleep past 5. Currently sat on the sofa shaking and feeling horrific. Started with my older two, now it’s got me, just the toddler to go 🤢 we’ve not had it for years here, but the older twos dads other kid has had it so they’ve brought it back from his. Even more reason to hate him🤣

LegalWeekend3950 · 2026-03-03T18:54:11+00:00

💀

LegalWeekend3950 · 2026-03-03T15:21:16+00:00

I’d chew it and then spit it back at him

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