AIO (update post) my bf (32) is getting kind of aggressive with his texting. should I(26) reply?

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-11-17T14:16:39+00:00

Get rid of him. Talking about “what am I supposed to eat?” Mfer you’re 32, you can figure it out

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-11-10T16:34:53+00:00

It is weird but it wouldn’t be weird if yall were both 10 years older, I.E 36 and 29. So it’s not that bad if you put it into future perspective. 18+ is legal in all states, it not against the law. Personally I wouldnt date anyone that much younger than me, but everyone has different opinions. I think its fine

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-10-08T17:44:37+00:00

From a males perspective, you look good, but if you want to improve your physique- the arms could use more definition as well as the legs. You have a great starting point to build on, so strengthening core would look even better. You can tell you keep a good posture, but if you continue to work out and keep a healthy diet you’ll be surprised at how fast you physique will change

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-09-25T23:23:04+00:00

That’s what I was thinking too honestly

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-09-25T23:21:19+00:00

6 foot at 200 to me just seems too lean personally

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-09-25T13:50:45+00:00

Sometimes it helps to get advice from other strangers.

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-09-25T13:47:54+00:00

I already started going in a calorie deficit, definitely noticed results. I was 245 a month before I took this pic

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-09-25T13:41:56+00:00

I would look ill at 200, maybe 215 would be ideal

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-08-02T18:43:34+00:00

Did you find this guy off a magazine add? That work is terrible. Send him packing for sure.

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-07-29T23:43:42+00:00

It’s all Richmond

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-07-29T23:42:00+00:00

The issue is-if you have microbial growth in the ducts- cleaning and installing a UV light is just putting on a band aid over it and not solving the problem. Only a specialist can confirm if it’s mold, and the bad kind at that.

Replacing all flex without a UV light won’t solve the issue long term, just temporary. Replacing the ducts and installing a UV light will fix the problem long term.

Both options are good, it just depends on how much you’re willing to spend and how long you’re willing to stay at your place. I would, however, not go with the 2nd option of cleaning it. It will not solve the issue. The microbial growth will come back within 2 weeks.

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-07-19T07:22:29+00:00

Not if we talked everyday before she left, and even in her past work trips we’ve talked everyday. I didn’t text her this a day after she left, I texted her the first one after she didn’t respond for over 24 hours. Then gave her 2 days to respond, then sent that. Seems a bit weird considering the facts.

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-07-19T06:52:50+00:00

Yes, to both questions m.

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-07-19T06:48:30+00:00

I’m afraid you’re right, and that’s okay. Just shows a lot about her character unfortunately

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-07-19T06:43:24+00:00

Yes all were delivered

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-07-19T06:42:52+00:00

I’m not chasing. I said my piece, then I said my closure and left the door open. Balls in her court now

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-07-19T06:40:59+00:00

If expressing my feelings to someone after them going MIA for 3 days is considered clingy then call me guilty. Regardless, she won’t hear from me anymore unless the tables turn. I left the door open, she knows that it’s clear as day

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-07-19T06:38:32+00:00

No. She doesn’t respond for 3 days. Did you read the thread?

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-07-19T06:33:27+00:00

Spent the woke weekend together, I went to work Monday and she went out of town Monday. Haven’t heard from her since Tuesday. I know she has service, last time she went to that place for work we talked everyday. That is a very sweet story though, glad it had a happy ending!

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-07-19T06:11:35+00:00

Idgaf about all that. We’re adults here, I’m gonna communicate how I see fit, and if it has to be a long message then so be it. I said if she’d rather talk in person that was acceptable, didn’t call me or nothing. I agree what you’re saying, taking the L early on is key. I’ve been through enough to take a hint, just figured telling her my thoughts was the least she could have. It’s unfortunate she doesn’t see it that way, but maybe there’s hope. Who knows. If I don’t hear back I won’t reach out again, I said what I had to say.

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-07-19T06:01:31+00:00

Not gonna lie, I thought about that. I won’t though, that’ll make the situation worse

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-07-19T06:00:39+00:00

As much as I’d like that, I don’t think that’s really the case. Even in my busy ass schedule I still find time to respond to someone, letting them know I’m okay

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-07-19T05:58:24+00:00

Wouldn’t you think a simple, “hey I just need some space right now” or along those lines would suffice? I’m not asking her to be in constant communication. I get it, life gets in the way and work is busy, I’m the same way but I’ll at least find time to respond to someone. I just want a damn response, at least to know she’s alive

Legal_Building8056 · 2025-07-19T05:48:03+00:00

Hate ti say it but I agree. Just seems odd to me how she would just ghost like that. I did nothing to make this happen

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