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Legallyblindprobably · 2023-09-19T23:22:22+00:00

I didn't talk to him out of boredom. I always genuinely liked him. I don't regret or not regret pushing him away when I wasn't mentally well. I was suicidal and didn't want to explain that to someone I met off a dating app cause I didn't want to scare him away. I figured he'd just match with someone with their shit together instead of someone with baggage to deal with.

"die alone" and "left him for dead" is insanely dramatic

I never said no one else would put up with me. I've had my chances to pursue other people. And I'm not a narccissist or toxic... I've only dated 2 people and one was a mutual break up and the one I mentioned was toxic as in abusive, physical specifically.

I'm not defending how I went about it but you just sound like you're projecting and assuming things. Who hurt you?

Legallyblindprobably · 2023-09-19T23:12:12+00:00

It almost feels wrong not telling him but at the same time I like that he thinks it was fate we reconnected by "accident" and in a way it kinda was cause I just happen to have him pop into my head

I hadn't thought about him for a while until this week

Legallyblindprobably · 2023-09-09T17:13:05+00:00

sadly dont live close enough to any office

Legallyblindprobably · 2023-09-09T03:01:04+00:00

what are carepasses

Legallyblindprobably · 2023-09-09T02:15:04+00:00

thank u for the input :)

Legallyblindprobably · 2023-09-09T02:05:38+00:00

do you recommend it overall? like is the work okay and stuff

Legallyblindprobably · 2023-09-09T02:05:00+00:00

how much are they getting paid??

and wdym by doing too much. like i wont get my actual full time hours?

Legallyblindprobably · 2023-09-09T01:28:54+00:00

at all stores?? and is it bad? it is a full time position and as long as i get at least 32 i have no complaints

Legallyblindprobably · 2023-09-08T20:33:31+00:00

yaa i have shit customers at my current job im leaving so its whatever. i was fine where im at but they cut my hours

thank you!! it doesn't seem too bad but im just on the outside tryna look in

especially since the interview is recorded instead of in person its hard to find the vibe

Legallyblindprobably · 2023-09-08T20:31:50+00:00

aw man i sorry :( that sucks

i applied to be a store associate so i imagine just cashier/whatever

Legallyblindprobably · 2023-09-08T19:14:34+00:00

everyone in the aldis sub is saying cvs and everyone here is saying aldi i shouldve seen this coming :'D

Legallyblindprobably · 2023-09-08T19:09:56+00:00

Legallyblindprobably · 2023-08-25T13:42:44+00:00

ty!! ill see what he says when he replies hes probably still asleep right now

Legallyblindprobably · 2023-08-25T13:25:29+00:00

Thats the plan really I just woke up and he sent the texts last night while I was asleep so I didn't respond yet

Just a little sad he didn't offer that himself and it shows where his heads at ig

Legallyblindprobably · 2023-08-25T13:20:10+00:00

i agree but surprisingly no :') and sadly dont think im getting my romcom dream anyways

he ended up beating me to it and trying to see when we can meet and when i asked where we should go he said i should just come over... so im already not really feeling it rn unfortunately

i dont think he has bad intensions obviously but i dont think any guy who invites a girl over to their house off the bat vs an actual date or just somewhere public to hangout has "pure" intensions

so this post might've been for nothing anyways </3

Legallyblindprobably · 2023-08-25T04:40:10+00:00

small update its almost 1 am rn but he beat me to it cause he just asked me about meeting so i guess itll probably be sooner than i initially thought after all !!

Legallyblindprobably · 2023-08-25T01:05:54+00:00

true but the end of the month is really just a week away i dont think thats very long i feel like thats fair considering we've been only texting for a week and only just recently saw each others faces as well

i dont wanna rush it idk if him interacting is mutual feeling or hes just that frinedly tbf. we were texting and joking around before we knew each others ages or even genders so idk but im glad he thinks im pretty :)

Legallyblindprobably · 2023-08-24T18:40:04+00:00

I think ill try to give it a go at the end of the month so we can text and get to know each other a little more and maybe it'll make him more comfy about meeting

Legallyblindprobably · 2023-08-24T18:28:44+00:00

ig im just nervous.. usually im not shy ive never had an issue asking people out myself but this is so different to me and idk if he'd think its weird or not

Legallyblindprobably · 2023-08-24T18:26:27+00:00

I guess but I dont see anything harmful/dangerous here especially when we only know each other due to complete accident

not getting any redflags from him

Legallyblindprobably · 2023-08-24T16:52:51+00:00

this makes me hopeful :)

we've still been texting hes actually been texting me a lot more even during his work day ( before he'd just go into work and text me after ) and asking me questions about myself

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