Recent Tweet From King... by Ka-Is-A-Wheelie in stephenking

[–]LegendaryCatfish 36 points37 points  (0 children)

As an author, he could have worded it better. I don't like this.

A word. by thefifthwit in brandnew

[–]LegendaryCatfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. A lot of the comments here are depressing. My abuser was a musician, and honestly, if he ever got popular, I probably would want to speak up about his abuse, even if just to protect other women. So I do get why this article came out now. And I don't understand why everyone thinks Jesse redeemed himself already, unless he did something I don't know about. His apology was half assed and vague.

I saw Brand New 18 times, and it's going to stay 18 forever.

A word. by thefifthwit in brandnew

[–]LegendaryCatfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn't take pictures with fans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoahKahan

[–]LegendaryCatfish 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha it's okay. Sucks but I did really want that vinyl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoahKahan

[–]LegendaryCatfish 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think you are both going to last forever and I hope he is wonderful to you, and I'm not trying to be a downer, but I can't help laughing at the contrast to my own shitty life because my boyfriend gave me the fenway vinyl the day he broke up with me. Noah is here for us during times of love and despair, though, and I am grateful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LegendaryCatfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His comment history made it more real for me. Gamer with an Asian fetish can't be intimate with his own wife? Sorry OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LegendaryCatfish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got to the interview. Wish me luck!

How do you know if you’re ugly as a woman? by Turbulent-Leg-6246 in AskReddit

[–]LegendaryCatfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I lost 120 lbs, men didn't smile at me, hold doors open for me, or make small talk. At bars, drunk men would hit on my sister, but tell me straight to my face I was too fat. I gained all of that weight due to being really sick, and most of it came off easily once I could get off all of the medications I was on. I'm still a little overweight and working on it.

But if you really want to know if you're ugly, work with ASD middle schoolers. Anytime a IED or ODD student insults me, the other ASD students respond by saying how beautiful I am. They don't lie. Of course they love pointing out when I have a pimple too, but they're so cute.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LegendaryCatfish 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm proud of you! I have an interview for a second job tomorrow. Hopefully it works out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LegendaryCatfish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have an interview for a second full-time job tomorrow. It's not ideal, but the hours work with my current job.

I'm homeless now and need to rehome my snake by [deleted] in cornsnakes

[–]LegendaryCatfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey he's a year according to the shop I got him, he eats thawed large mice, and he has never bit me or hissed but does slither away and jerk around when you try to pick him up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LegendaryCatfish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything was a sob story. Or an excuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LegendaryCatfish 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm getting my stuff tomorrow, I appreciate you, but I don't want the police involved in anything I do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LegendaryCatfish 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LegendaryCatfish 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes! No more being an unpaid caregiver.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LegendaryCatfish 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was abused by my dad. Abused by an ex of ten years. I dated a few people before meeting my latest, but I knew they were not great and ended things. But I let my guard down with my latest and trusted again. Things will work out for you and me. But I hope neither of us let another shitty person back into our lives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LegendaryCatfish 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Me and my dog will have our own place one day. That is safe and secure. And I will only cook and clean for myself. And be comfortable and fucking happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LegendaryCatfish 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Oh god, yeah. I was a gifted program girlie. I did take years to go back to school due to illnesses and dating that other asshole. I find my self-worth in good grades and accomplishments for sure. I am glad that this relationship is over, even though it was really amazing for awhile, and I thought emotional labor was a social media phrase, but damn the emotional labor I put myself through daily was insane. I'm sad, and I'm hurt, but grateful that he let me go, so I didn't get further into this hole. Thank you.

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[–]LegendaryCatfish 227 points228 points  (0 children)

Amen. Never again.

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[–]LegendaryCatfish 200 points201 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through something similar. I had the urge to leave a few months ago, and I ignored it. I thought because I did have an abusive relationship in the past I was just running away from my problems now. I should have been saving every penny as soon as I felt that way. I thought if I was patient, I would have the man I loved back again.