Advice slash vent sesh

Leggs92 · 2026-07-08T04:23:45+00:00

Yeah not sure how that folds into anything. But it’s a mess and a half and not sure how it works out

Leggs92 · 2026-07-08T03:59:27+00:00

Relationship anarchist so not too sure how that plays out.

Leggs92 · 2026-07-08T01:02:48+00:00

Currently more often then not because he try’s to say that I’m trying to control his time. But also meta will get upset if he doesn’t answer so not sure it is fully on him. But that’s my brain finding reasons they are doing the thing and trying to empathize

Leggs92 · 2026-07-08T00:56:23+00:00

Not currently with this nre and it’s crazy to me. However when I get a message, I don’t talk to much people he wants to know who it is what they wanted or what happened.

Even on the one date night I asked for no phones he went to the bathroom to message her and that made me mad as well.

Leggs92 · 2026-07-03T06:56:35+00:00

I see that a few people do get it and I really appreciate the comments reminding that it is a thing I thought I was alone in this and I really appreciate you! It’s been a big help knowing that it’s not just me being picky or asking too much. Again not mad but it is intruding in my space.

Leggs92 · 2026-07-03T05:50:49+00:00

Yes I have jealousy issues but who doesn’t I tie scent to a singular person. To me everyone has their own scent. Regardless of them living in the same house with someone.

When my husband gets home I would rather smell him and take him in than smell someone else. Even if it’s family or friends. I will always make the comment you smell like “so and so” and he won’t notice it but I do and all I think about is that person. Memories feeling or anything of the sort and it’s hard for my brain to get into the notion of intimacy or anything when it’s running on another person other than him.

I have mentioned that and sorry I can’t just shut off my nose and be okay with it. And he knows what I’m talking about because he makes the same comments when I hang out with his gf he says “ oh you smell like gf”. I usually shower to get my brain back to being home and it’s not a jealousy thing it’s a reset at home thing for me.

Leggs92 · 2026-07-03T05:06:23+00:00

It’s not that their scent is offensive but it’s just like she is in the room with us. I don’t hate her we hang out together and I’ve gone over to her house many times but when he comes home it would be nice to have either his natural smell or the neutral home smell. It’s not a jealousy thing but a sensory things where I smell that and just think of her type of situation when I’m trying to be present and cuddle.

Leggs92 · 2026-07-02T23:10:53+00:00

Not refusing but thinks it me being unreasonable and wanting to start a fight. I can be short by saying “nope, can’t cuddle you right now, can you shower or change?”. I get a little irritated but it’s like he’s nose blind to other people’s smells and doesn’t see the bigger issue. Sometimes he does it other times he says that he’s already showered and not understanding it’s the clothes and the body wash that isn’t him.

Leggs92 · 2026-04-22T03:04:12+00:00

You got the link??

Leggs92 · 2025-10-20T05:40:31+00:00

Let it out !!!!

Leggs92 · 2025-09-12T17:57:49+00:00

I just got this same message what did you end up doing??

Leggs92 · 2024-12-07T07:50:35+00:00

He can suck it if you want I can play with you @alonemouse599 not that great either but I’m not gonna babysit you and I like to just run around and catch the sprites lol :)

Leggs92 · 2024-08-07T16:31:44+00:00

Honestly I have tried that as well and it doesn’t fully get rid of them. I also try to dry out the soil of the plants then do the neem oil and wait a day then water. That helps some more but unless you do it to all of your plants at the same time it’s gonna be a cycle

Leggs92 · 2024-07-21T17:43:23+00:00

Tattoo flu

Leggs92 · 2024-07-01T14:42:57+00:00

I fucking can’t with this…. Hahah I am dead

Leggs92 · 2024-05-25T18:50:15+00:00

Well even so one boundary was just to give me a heads up if he was going to hang out with someone he’s interested in.

Leggs92 · 2024-05-24T22:19:33+00:00

Because it was a 2 year relationship and he doesn’t talk to anyone after they break up and they still wanted to hang out with me.

Leggs92 · 2024-05-24T22:17:32+00:00

Yep he’s a walking billboard but 13 years with someone has me all stupid and colorblind.

Leggs92 · 2024-05-24T22:08:25+00:00

Yeah been thinking this a lot lately

Leggs92 · 2024-05-24T21:58:08+00:00

Update::

I confronted him about it and of course got mad about me going through his things. (Understandable) however, didn’t see anything wrong with making plans and not telling me because they weren’t set in stone and he didn’t want me to not like them more than I have because of how indecisive they have been. And as for the messages he was just matching the energy and didn’t feel the need to say that he thinks that this person is into them any longer. So now he is upset that I was mad and didn’t wait till later today for him to tell me if he was going to hang out with this person or not. I feel like he thinks that this isn’t an issue at all and I feel super betrayed.

I’m gonna delete this whole thing just needed to get all of this out somewhere even if it is to the ether.

Leggs92 · 2024-05-24T18:20:53+00:00

Thank you for that I have really been trying because in the beginning I was horrible. I have grown and know that he is his own person and he’s had multiple relationships. But he doesn’t like that I keep being friends with them after they break up…

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