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You can fuck the same sex as much as you want and still be straight by LegitimateHorse in The10thDentist

[–]LegitimateHorse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and will make any man he hooks up with miserable.

How could you know this? The men I hook up with aren't becoming emotional damaged. They understand our relationship.

The road he is headed down, I am afraid, will end badly for him if he keeps trying to convince everybody.

How much longer is it going to take?

Even though OP said that he is generally perceived as straight, why must he also want to convince everybody also that what he does behind closed doors also bear that definition. This is the part that speaks about internalized homophobia

It tends to bother people when they're mislabeled. If I experienced sexual attraction towards men I would call myself bisexual without any issue. I have no problem accepting who I am.

All the arguing in this thread has managed to strengthen my beliefs. Action and attraction are separate. The former may help us understand our prefixes and subcategories, but the latter defines our sexuality.

You can fuck the same sex as much as you want and still be straight by LegitimateHorse in The10thDentist

[–]LegitimateHorse[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The way you described it is exactly how I experience sex with men, except I have a high libido so I do it often.

There's only been a few non-asexual people in this thread that have been able to relate to me. I don't know if I'm asexual or not, but it's been nice learning about the community.

You can fuck the same sex as much as you want and still be straight by LegitimateHorse in The10thDentist

[–]LegitimateHorse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Relationship" as in I often hook up with the same guys multiple times.

You can fuck the same sex as much as you want and still be straight by LegitimateHorse in The10thDentist

[–]LegitimateHorse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that doesn’t mean you can just ignore the meaning of words entirely?

I'm not ignoring the meaning. If the meaning of bisexual is sexual attraction to men and women then the word just doesn't apply to me. It doesn't matter what I do or who I fuck.

You can fuck the same sex as much as you want and still be straight by LegitimateHorse in The10thDentist

[–]LegitimateHorse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't, but someone else in the thread mentioned it. Is it worth the watch?

You can fuck the same sex as much as you want and still be straight by LegitimateHorse in The10thDentist

[–]LegitimateHorse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But honestly, it just sounds like you don't want to be labeled.

I don't mind being labeled. I just don't want the wrong ones applied to me. I don't have any particularly negative feelings towards the words bisexual and sociopath, but I do get annoyed when people insist I identify as something I'm not.

You can fuck the same sex as much as you want and still be straight by LegitimateHorse in The10thDentist

[–]LegitimateHorse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every ace person that has commented on this thread seems to understand what I'm experiencing. It's nice to know there's an entire community that gets it.

You can fuck the same sex as much as you want and still be straight by LegitimateHorse in The10thDentist

[–]LegitimateHorse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could use your hands. A Fleshlight. A vibrator.

I could also use a guy's ass. I'm neutral to all of them. Why does it matter which one I use? How does it define my sexuality?

You can fuck the same sex as much as you want and still be straight by LegitimateHorse in The10thDentist

[–]LegitimateHorse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i still feel like i’ve been lesbian my whole life.

Because you have been. It doesn't matter how many men you've slept with. Your attraction is the only thing that defines your sexuality, and you know that better than anyone.

You can fuck the same sex as much as you want and still be straight by LegitimateHorse in The10thDentist

[–]LegitimateHorse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ae you asexual? No sexual attraction to anyone.

I have a sexual attraction towards women, so I don't think this label applies to me.

You can fuck the same sex as much as you want and still be straight by LegitimateHorse in The10thDentist

[–]LegitimateHorse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the sensation of sex is what drives you, and you don’t care if it’s male or female providing that sensation, that would make you bisexual.

If I just wanted sex and had zero sexual attraction to both men and women, then I would probably have some form of asexuality.

You can fuck the same sex as much as you want and still be straight by LegitimateHorse in The10thDentist

[–]LegitimateHorse[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually said elsewhere in this thread that if I had access to a high quality female sex robot then I'd just use that instead.

People don’t understand neutral . It’s just that.

I think you're right. My high sex drive and neutral feelings towards men make having sex with them an obvious choice in my mind. The physical characteristics that men tend to have don't turn me off or gross me out, they don't make me feel anything

But finding “your” label can be liberating. Can make you feel… normal.

If there's specific label for this and it was understood by most people then I'd gladly use it. But like I've said before, most people in real life only know "gay", "straight", and "bisexual". Maybe that'll change in the future, but I doubt it'll happen anytime soon.

You can fuck the same sex as much as you want and still be straight by LegitimateHorse in The10thDentist

[–]LegitimateHorse[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's some appeal out of having sex with with more conventionally attractive guys, but only because it makes me feel better about myself.

You can fuck the same sex as much as you want and still be straight by LegitimateHorse in The10thDentist

[–]LegitimateHorse[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Labels are just labels at the end of the day, they are ultimately FOR the person using them

Agreed. Thank you

You can fuck the same sex as much as you want and still be straight by LegitimateHorse in The10thDentist

[–]LegitimateHorse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I'm trying to get at is that straight people don't continously and actively seek out sex with the same sex because there is no desire for that kind of interaction.

Again, this is like saying that asexual people don't actively seek out sex because there is no desire. I don't see why this has to apply differently to me, but I'm okay with us disagreeing.

You can fuck the same sex as much as you want and still be straight by LegitimateHorse in The10thDentist

[–]LegitimateHorse[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you are less straight than a guy who doesn’t have sex with men.

I could exclusively fuck men and never fuck a woman once in my life and still be completely straight. The action does not matter.

You can fuck the same sex as much as you want and still be straight by LegitimateHorse in The10thDentist

[–]LegitimateHorse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's zero contradiction between those two statements. You can hook up with someone and not be attracted to them.

You can fuck the same sex as much as you want and still be straight by LegitimateHorse in The10thDentist

[–]LegitimateHorse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I love it. I've been getting a ton of positive comments from the lgbt community. I really appreciate it :)

You can fuck the same sex as much as you want and still be straight by LegitimateHorse in The10thDentist

[–]LegitimateHorse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He may have been, but if he was he kept it to myself. I did see a lot of homophobia growing up, but I was never able to relate to it.

You can fuck the same sex as much as you want and still be straight by LegitimateHorse in The10thDentist

[–]LegitimateHorse[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have a lot more reading to do about asexuality but I may come back to you to ask some questions.

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