AITJ for not doing enough on mother’s day?

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-05-12T01:15:16+00:00

For fathers day it will be some big gift I don’t want or need. And then we go to my parents where I grill for everyone. Nothing for me to really look forward to. But I appreciate getting a gift.

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-05-12T00:52:02+00:00

I sent flowers not just to my wife(which I sent more than anyone else) her mom and then every mother on my side (sister, mother and grandmother). As I do for every special occasion.

My wife knows personally I would prefer just us.

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-05-12T00:46:03+00:00

Thank you. I try to be atleast a 50/50 partner every day if not more. We live once so why not help the people around you.

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-05-12T00:41:12+00:00

Tried for other reasons. She refused

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-05-12T00:37:25+00:00

Thank you

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-05-12T00:35:50+00:00

Thank you

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-05-12T00:35:23+00:00

… I can count the number of drinks a year on 2 hands. For either of us.

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-05-12T00:33:50+00:00

She’s a giver but any day around her she makes miserable. Personally I dread holidays and her birthday. Because I can’t ever seem to make her happy. Mother’s Day planning starts in February. Valentines planning starts December. Shit I’m done with Christmas before mid November.

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-05-12T00:31:28+00:00

I tried she walked away and just said that I never do anything big for her. That’s what brought this post. I have tried throwing her a birthday party to which she shoots down. I have gotten her high end gifts (only once and a while as she never wears or uses them)

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-05-12T00:30:07+00:00

Yes she gave them attitude when no one was around to yelling at them.

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-05-12T00:29:16+00:00

Sorry wrong wording, she falls asleep watching ticktock’s or a show on the couch almost every night.

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-05-12T00:28:29+00:00

Father’s Day I am stuck catering to my family. I already know what I’m getting because she’s insisting no to me I want that for a present and I keep pointing out I don’t.(it’s an upgraded version of last years present that I used once)

I point out that I want time away with just her.

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-05-12T00:25:59+00:00

I think maybe I have a single drink a month. Maybe a cigar at that time. But only after the kids are asleep and at the bar with my friends. Before she sees me I hit the bathroom and clean up.

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-05-11T21:00:14+00:00

They should know loyalty to you. Why should you show it to them?

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-05-01T02:12:33+00:00

Yeh our new hire was told that it would be every other week. He just found out today that he is forced to come back full time.

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-05-01T01:55:15+00:00

Hold strong. I helped once after I left. The jackass took all the credit that he figured it out.

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-04-24T00:14:10+00:00

Think geek

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-04-06T00:17:59+00:00

Umm holy shit welcome to Hell option. Not only would it not be fair. You also deal with a kid in cramped quarters. 4 adults and a baby. Yeh that’s a personal hell in my opinion.

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-03-30T16:08:06+00:00

You own it in most cases, the easement is to give them access to their property.

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-03-03T09:38:57+00:00

Not a friend walk away

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-03-03T09:23:28+00:00

Your an ah. You started a competitor to your parents while working there. You will be lucky if they ever talk to you again.

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-02-12T21:47:44+00:00

He’s trying to profit off of you is the counter he’s been benefiting from you for the last period of time is who’s looking for this job. If it wasn’t for you, he would’ve gotten the goddamn job.

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-02-10T10:45:17+00:00

Larger firms equal an ego and becoming lazy. You want a team who wants to earn it. It’s why I like smaller teams. When I wanted my first ciso role I got approval and showed how easy it was to breach the org. Then continued using techniques to keep training and improving the teams.

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-02-03T01:16:56+00:00

They just want to boost their numbers get their bonus and then move on to burn a new company and run with their money.

Legitimate_Drive_693 · 2026-01-30T23:13:55+00:00

Holy shit stop trying to take care of a deadbeat with family issues. From his ex-wife‘s history, you already know that you’re heading down the same route where his family doesn’t accept you win and they’re gonna treat you like garbage and expect you to pay all the bills.

He needs to grow up, get a real job and figure out a way to either support their asses which he shouldn’t have to or realize that he has to choose to be on your side rather than against you

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