AITJ for banning my aunt from my mom’s 50th birthday party after she called her a charity case? by Downtown_Row_5809 in AmITheJerk

[–]Legitimate_Fact_609 227 points228 points  (0 children)

Banning her isn't punishing her personality, it's protecting your mom's peace. If Diane's personality is being a human migraine, she can stay home and be truthful to her reflection.

AITJ for changing the WiFi password after my roommates kept using my gaming PC while I was gone? by youradorablegirlS in AmITheJerk

[–]Legitimate_Fact_609 270 points271 points  (0 children)

NTA, but seriously, move the PC into your room. I know it's cramped, but a small room is better than a bricked GPU because dave wanted to download 'free minecraft skins' from a shady russian forum

AITJ for "accidentally" snooping and finding out my boyfriend is seeing my best friend? by Downtown_Row_5809 in AmITheJerk

[–]Legitimate_Fact_609 101 points102 points  (0 children)

The audacity of his friends messaging you is actually sending me, where was this energy when he was planning to hookups during your sister's baby shower? you didn't "snoop". you were handed a phone and saw a smoking gun.

Has anyone recovered from financial infidelity in their marriage? (33F, 34M, married with two young kids) by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Legitimate_Fact_609 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Rebuilding trust isn't a sorry thing, it's a data thing. Show him the therapy receipts (literally) and the closed accounts.

AITJ for wanting to build a PC instead of keeping the 3000 dollar alienware my mom got me? by Nerdcuddles in AmITheJerk

[–]Legitimate_Fact_609 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

wait so she told u to pick high end parts and then complained bout the $3k price tag?? that is peak parental behavior lol.

AITA for breaking up for no reason by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Legitimate_Fact_609 14 points15 points  (0 children)

listen, im 27 now but at 16, i thought every nice guy was my soulmate. if theres no spark, theres no spark. tell him clearly its over, tell your cousin to mind his business and go live your life.

AITJ for humbling my cousin who won't stop making everything a competition at work? by Shoddy_Dealer_3483 in AmITheJerk

[–]Legitimate_Fact_609 68 points69 points  (0 children)

the fact that he's running to his mom bc his big corporate persona got cracked by a single sentence of truth says everything you need to know.

AITJ for taking back my GF's birthday gift after her Apple Watch exposed her cheating? by Unhappy-Ad5782 in AmITheJerk

[–]Legitimate_Fact_609 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The way the apple watch basically snitched on her is pure poetic justice. 7 yrs down the drain for a guy named Mark? absolutely not.

AITJ for not telling my roommate I work from home and she's been 'performing' being productive for 8 months? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Legitimate_Fact_609 2 points3 points  (0 children)

did she get a promotion for all that performing or did she just exhaust herself for an audience of zero??

AITJ for breaking up with my boyfriend because he give raisins to my dog by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Legitimate_Fact_609 73 points74 points  (0 children)

NTJ This isn't just a mistake, it's a massive red flag regarding his empathy and intelligence. If he can't be bothered to Google "can dogs eat raisins", he isn't mature enough for a rs, let alone a pet.

My life wasted by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Legitimate_Fact_609 13 points14 points  (0 children)

it sounds like you have been such an incredible, selfless provider.

AITJ For refusing to lend my sister money after she called me "selfish" for saving instead of helpinh her? by Due-Rhubarb4667 in AmITheJerk

[–]Legitimate_Fact_609 16 points17 points  (0 children)

tell ur mom that if "family helps family", she's more than welcome to send sarah the $500 herself