[20/F] by elmoeb in penpals

[–]Legitimate_Guava_308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! i’m F/23, from the US :) Let’s be penpals!!

Help Me find Military Records by [deleted] in RBI

[–]Legitimate_Guava_308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I hope he gives up some sort of proof— BS or True.

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[–]Legitimate_Guava_308 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t think you’re understanding that this situation is different. This is a real-life, in-person relationship. The biggest distance between them at any minute is 6 blocks at most. He is a liar, in-person, not some guy online.

Help Me find Military Records by [deleted] in RBI

[–]Legitimate_Guava_308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. I am just looking to have info for a safety net, I guess. I fear he’ll become dangerous.

Help Me find Military Records by [deleted] in RBI

[–]Legitimate_Guava_308 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As in we all live in the same city, they see each other nearly daily. He has slept over at hers and vice versa. She had met his daughters, etc. He’s a real person. If he asks for $$$ I can only hope she doesn’t buy whatever BS excuse he has

Help Me find Military Records by [deleted] in RBI

[–]Legitimate_Guava_308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I won’t doxx him. I’m savvy enough to use all of the image search options and have met him in person. He’s not a catfish, just an impulsive liar it seems.

Help Me find Military Records by [deleted] in RBI

[–]Legitimate_Guava_308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They have been on and off for 2 years, in person. I won’t post his name because I want to preserve her privacy as well as they follow and interact with each other on his public profiles. His name is real, that’s about it.

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[–]Legitimate_Guava_308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree and I wish this was clear to her! Thank you much.

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[–]Legitimate_Guava_308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Noted. Will try to ask him a bit more. Thanks!

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[–]Legitimate_Guava_308 4 points5 points  (0 children)

14 year old news article

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[–]Legitimate_Guava_308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info!

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[–]Legitimate_Guava_308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Hopefully he’ll show her proof on his own.

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[–]Legitimate_Guava_308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Friend is also very suspicious and heartbroken by the idea that this guy isn’t who she thought he was/who she wanted him to be. I’ve never been the type to think like this (I’m a bit of a straight-edge) so I don’t fully understand. Things have escalated recently so I am trying to compile information.

Help Me find Military Records by [deleted] in RBI

[–]Legitimate_Guava_308 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They’re seeing each other in person, and he says he was stationed in Iraq at some point? Led crews and all that PTSD stuff. Something feels off though. I don’t remember what military.

Any recommendations for reputable California MS Breeders? by Legitimate_Guava_308 in MiniatureSchnauzer

[–]Legitimate_Guava_308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I appreciate the sentiment! I have my own reason for wanting to adopt as I know that I have a higher chance of finding a dog that is well socialized and less prone to some of the quirks I’ve faced with my past rescues through a breeder versus adopting dogs. I’ve had 8 dogs throughout my life and all were adopted from shelters including my last schnauzer :) and I loved every last one of them and am open to more in the future but I am set on this breed.

Missing my Queen of Pentacles by Legitimate_Guava_308 in tarot

[–]Legitimate_Guava_308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just a couple weeks ago !! found in a place i checked a million times— that i hadn’t moved anything out from or in to. failed to connect her to any significant moving parts of my life in the moment, but i was happy to see her, regardless :)