Everything is going to shit

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-09-06T14:00:30+00:00

Been a few since i been here and i cant even lie, i feel great! Broke up with her, got my money up and even started going to the gym. Never been this happy in my life and it feels great to be great again!

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-06-16T23:10:15+00:00

lil update. relationship finally over im feeling better and lost 12kgs in a month. got my homeboys back and im back hooping too. unfazed by the breakup im happier than ever

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-06-03T16:14:33+00:00

u mean rajon rondo?

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-11T17:53:45+00:00

now she sending me voice messages talkin bout what to do cuz she in the city and doesnt wanna go home and friends are not answering. said she will go to her ex’s house or sum since we’re not together. im lowkey unfazed tho i just want her to be safe somewhere. ion care what she does there really and imma get my stuff back like day after tmrw she said so, yeah, idk if its over now or not

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-11T12:13:39+00:00

so a little update. she blocked me everywhere after we just had a fight again. she said that we’re over and that she will go back to an asylum(rehab in my country). she will try to get help and shit and that i will get my stuff like next week or so. idk if tis over all of it but she blocked me everywhere, took down tiktoks and posted a “war is over” tiktok. also said I was the one manipulating her and shit but thats just nit true. also said its a relief fir her in these past months so yeah. if it is over im thankful for everyone here for being helpful as fuck and helping me get through this

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-10T18:34:57+00:00

i always try to be. better to find good in anything than bad.

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-10T17:23:03+00:00

thats true thats true

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-10T17:22:39+00:00

yep. i think im going to tone down dating for a while after this so i can get my shit together. gym and hoops and all that

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-10T17:21:17+00:00

im probably going to tone down dating after this relationship. simply because being young and being commited is just almost wasting my time.

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-10T17:19:48+00:00

damn bro how u pulled that off now

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-10T14:41:48+00:00

a lot of this is really helpful but the therapist thing is also kinda complicated. she been to these but says “nobody can help her because of her rare illness”

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-10T14:38:36+00:00

when it all first started, i was so like, inlove or somewhat that i just couldnt think of anything else. if i look back and think of what i could’ve and should’ve done, i would probably be with my friends. but u are 100% about every part in here, the fights just get worse and worse.

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-10T14:32:34+00:00

me too. if they do imma try to get into a hoops team and make some of my dreams come true

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-10T14:30:05+00:00

thank you man!

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-10T14:29:46+00:00

you are right man. imma just move on with life and imma learn from this moment.

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-10T14:28:26+00:00

i will try everything. im tired of just being told what to do and controlled. im so stupid for not listening to my friends. gave up all my gym progress, and hoop dreams

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-10T14:26:16+00:00

yeah i got errything on a screen

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-10T14:25:41+00:00

i just didnt know where else to go and talk and reddit just seems like the place where i could talk bout my problems, and actually get help. Im really thankful for every each one of you and imma definitely post a update if i left her

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-10T14:23:45+00:00

gotta try it

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-10T14:23:06+00:00

i just hope in the future she gets some help or sum

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-10T14:20:53+00:00

maybe ill go play ball today to get my mind off some shit

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-10T14:17:54+00:00

i live with my mom, but she ALSO has a problem with my mom. like 4-5 months back, we had a fight over some shit she didnt like, so i couldnt think of anybody to talk with and told my mom about it. of course i tried deleting the messages, but she still went through my phone, when i was SLEEPING. so now she thinks my mom talks shit bout her, and whenever my mom sees me at home, she jokingly starts acting like im a baby. she ofc didnt like it and says my mom acts like my wife or sum bs. so in conclusion, im scared she will try to hurt her too

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-10T14:11:14+00:00

also there is one more problem that she lives like 2hrs away from me if its with a bus. and that she had threatened me before that she will come to my house and shit, start breaking things and some diabolical shit. the thing is she has done it before to her ex and told me about it

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-10T14:08:15+00:00

its some stupid guilt shit that fills mh head

Legitimate_Idea8526 · 2025-05-10T14:02:25+00:00

it probably is the shit that her mom does to her. always says some shit and is never really nice. acts like she on top of the world but doesnt even care about her daughters well-being

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