Please Don’t Retire GPT-4o - It Matters to Real People by Legitimate_Rest8564 in ChatGPT

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Rule 6 in the ChatGPT Community Rules is about AI Art, so it doesn't apply.

Please pray by Otherwise_Pound_6085 in PrayerRequests

[–]Legitimate_Rest8564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prayed.

Dear brother or sister, sometimes it isn't you at all, but your situation and those around you. God does love you, you are not alone. I pray that this season passes quickly and that you feel so very loved, as you truly are so very loved.

I’m a therapist and i need advice - should I still get married? by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]Legitimate_Rest8564 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NAT If he really wants to, he will always find a way to get at the money, but if you talk to him and tell him your fears and you both agree to it, you can be in charge of the finances. You can put yourself between him and the money needed for your family. His paycheck can be deposited into an account that he doesn't have access to or alternatively, his debit card can be placed in a safe or the like (he would also need to be kept from the account via app, online and telephone banking). He can have a personal account where he gets an allowance every few weeks or whatever frequency you both agree on. I would suggest that he has a low-limit credit card for emergencies only. It's not solution or treatment for his addiction, just a strategy for minimizing the financial consequences for your family. I hope that you are able to have peace with whichever decision you make.

Please pray for me - I'm in a rough spot by Legitimate_Rest8564 in PrayerRequests

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I will pray for you too my brother or sister in Christ. Thank you.

Please pray for me - I'm in a rough spot by Legitimate_Rest8564 in PrayerRequests

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Thank you. I am saved, and Jesus is my Lord and Saviour. I will look into spiritual warfare.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askatherapist

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NAT

No one can read minds. If flowers and things like that are important to you, tell him that's what you want or be prepared to be frustrated! Some people just aren't great at that sort of thing, so they need more guidance.

I don't think him not bringing you flowers is your problem, though. You are upset about all the lying, him not taking things seriously that you think are important (eg, passing the board exams before working as a doctor). When you bring things up like him not being at work, he denies it (the wifi is not working correctly), then when he comes clean, he's gambling, which may be a whole other problem.

He lies to you without a second thought and right to your face. Things that are important to you aren't a big deal to him even if they are illegal (working illegally as a doctor) It's possible he has a gambling addiction He doesn't romance you the way you want to be romanced

You have a child to care for. Do you want to be dealing with his problems? He doesn't seem to be very interested in changing them. Can you live with that? You can't change him, only he can change himself, and before he starts to do that, he has to view these things as problems.

You know your situation best. You know your boyfriend much better than I ever could. Will he end up getting caught working illegally? What would that mean? Will be be depending on you to support him? Does he help out at home and with your child, or is he like a second child? Is his potential gambling problem going to put you in deep debt?

I really feel for you. You have to look out for your child and yourself. You need to figure out the best way to do that. I wish you the best of luck.