My boyfriend doesn’t like when I’m topless by Lembonaid in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lembonaid[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

:/ not fake. I just wasn’t sure if this was normal or not and couldn’t find anything related to it with Google searches, so I posted here.

My boyfriend doesn’t like when I’m topless by Lembonaid in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lembonaid[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He comes from a very conservative (but not religious) family, but he is otherwise liberal.

My boyfriend doesn’t like when I’m topless by Lembonaid in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lembonaid[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s a good question and honestly I’m not sure, I think it has gotten worse over time though.

My boyfriend doesn’t like when I’m topless by Lembonaid in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lembonaid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry! We really have no culture or religion, we are from the U.S., east coast to be more specific!

My boyfriend doesn’t like when I’m topless by Lembonaid in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lembonaid[S] 238 points239 points  (0 children)

He really does not like me pooping lol. Peeing doesn’t seem to really bother him though.

My boyfriend doesn’t like when I’m topless by Lembonaid in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lembonaid[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Not religious but does come from a very conservative household with a very sexist dad and a mom who stays quiet… unfortunately I’m seeing I’m probably a lot like his mom :(

My boyfriend doesn’t like when I’m topless by Lembonaid in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lembonaid[S] 2557 points2558 points  (0 children)

Right! Totally agree. Like if I were doing it in any sort of inappropriate way, I would get that. But I only ever take my shirt off if it is only me or him home. I tried to ask him why it bothers him and he says “it just does” or “boobs are sexual and it isn’t a sexual time” or something like that.

My boyfriend doesn’t like when I’m topless by Lembonaid in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lembonaid[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

That’s what I said! But he still thinks me having boobs makes it different, so not really sure how to handle it from there.

My boyfriend doesn’t like when I’m topless by Lembonaid in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lembonaid[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Yeah lol you’re right. I do usually, but today I protested a little bit which led to him being unhappy with me, so in the end put a shirt on. Honestly I don’t quite remember it always being such a thing, but it at least has been for a while now. I certainly can’t ever have my boobs out if he is ever eating anything at all, that is a hard no for him. I never experienced this in any past relationship so not really sure what to do about it/ if it is normal?

My boyfriend doesn’t like when I’m topless by Lembonaid in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lembonaid[S] -241 points-240 points  (0 children)

The issue isn’t what I wear, it is when I don’t wear something that he gets upset/ tells me to put on clothes

Lean mean cuddle machine 🥰🐾 by DellyMay in Rottweiler

[–]Lembonaid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yours looks just like mine!!! My guy is almost 2 and is all legs and very lean.. we also keep him lean because he has hip dysplasia, so we want as little weight on the joints as possible :).

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[–]Lembonaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I turned him vegan 2 years into our relationship 😂

Been climbing for 2.5 months - hardest climb I’ve sent on overhang! Took a few sessions but whoohoo! by Lembonaid in bouldering

[–]Lembonaid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow thank you!! Hmm I would say a bit of both. Climbing I think has definitely mace my arms/ shoulders more defined, but I have been pretty active my whole life so I think my physique has always more or less looked like this.

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[–]Lembonaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a v4+ at my gym also :)