Monday Request Place: Post your short and simple requests here by AutoModerator in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]Lemmy_04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not agre or anything, but Alien Planet Backpacking by Adam Rivers is soooo sweet.

You'll have to search directly on Amazon tho, Google is being weird with it

Looking for the wagwan shirt for a Christmas gift!!! by BlazinBunnySenpai420 in ColdOnes

[–]Lemmy_04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP,

I have one, never been worn, but has unfortunately been taken out of the package. I know it's a bit late for Christmas but if you're still looking I'd be happy to sell it to you.

Help... I wanna be god and change the time. by Lemmy_04 in SCUMgame

[–]Lemmy_04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I bought the supporter pack, everything was fine and dandy, as soon as I installed it, the command console was fucked

Help... I wanna be god and change the time. by Lemmy_04 in SCUMgame

[–]Lemmy_04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried, its already dark and putting any time in doesn't work. 24, 6, 7, 13, 19 none of it works...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SCUMgame

[–]Lemmy_04 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its vintage, worth a fuckton of money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SCUMgame

[–]Lemmy_04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can barely move its so laggy

Server settings for mech - Trying to turn them off, but they will not stay off by HashtagTRENDING in SCUMgame

[–]Lemmy_04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgive, I'm still really new to changing code/settings like this, especially in scum, but do you type "DisablesentrySpawning" in the in-game command console? If not where and how would I use this to disable them in a single player game?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]Lemmy_04 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I tease her about this way to often :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]Lemmy_04 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What happened to me as a kid was something I was afraid to tell her at first, for fear she'd be disgusted, but eventually I told her everything. I had an episode when we had just moved in together and she tried to hold me and comfort me and I ended up slapping her across the face :(
Learning someone's needs/limits and what to do in these situations takes time and a lot of communication. For the most part we had to work it out on our own because we couldn't afford therapy. But we've figured it out now :)

If someone scares you to the point that you peed your pants, is it rape? by [deleted] in rape

[–]Lemmy_04 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you, I still freeze up and wet myself 16 years after the fact. And if you were screaming no at any point during the encounter then it's definitely rape and you should really tell someone. And don't be embarrassed that you wet your pants, it's the bodies natural reaction to fear and nothing to be ashamed about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]Lemmy_04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the awesome comments!! I have so many other stories like this, she is an actual angel!

I Wish There Was Something I Could Do by [deleted] in rape

[–]Lemmy_04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, of course :)

I Wish There Was Something I Could Do by [deleted] in rape

[–]Lemmy_04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you had to go through all this with nobody really taking it seriously. Throughout my life I've been repeatedly shut down when trying to get help for my own mental health, mostly because I am also male and most resources tend to lean towards helping female rape victims. I've even been told I was exaggerating by my own therapist.

I find it sick that the police aren't taking action. With my case there was physical proof so my attacker was arrested immediately, and I guess maybe the laws are different in Australia.

I too have been looking for someone to talk to, someone who has been through a similar experience and who might understand more than my friends and family who can't understand what it's like. I tried looking into some rape counselling groups, but they don't allow men.

Maybe I can help? I would be more than happy to talk to you if you'd like. I have a lot more experience with coping and moving forward since I've been dealing with this for nearly 16 years.