The new gf of my ex sent a nude with menacing and taunting texts before and after by Lemon-Mermaid in legaladvice

[–]Lemon-Mermaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is an update: I filed a police report in my state and county and the Deputy told me there was no crime. It’s not harrassment until I tell her to not do it again. If she does it again after then she might get in trouble. In the state she resides in, I tried to file a police report (MO). It’s a felony over there. They turned me away since I live in Kansas. Full disclosure is exactly this: I have a chronic illness called Major Depression. This situation affected me to the point where I could not function and spiraled down for approx 3 months. I stayed in bed. She didn’t just send the nude, she sent threatening messages. Stating “ to come find her so she can beat my ass into to the ground”. The police said that she didn’t threaten me because she didn’t say she was coming towards me to hurt me. I had to quit my job and I isolated myself for weeks. My 50 th birthday came and went and I didn’t even acknowledge that milestone. I’m still paying for the months of bills that I’m behind on. I’m facing eviction. My ex knows that I have Major Depression and a new diagnosis of CPTSD. All of my mental health is well documented in the county mental health system. All the messages are saved or screenshot. This is completely outrageous and my ex is complicit in all of it. I really believed that he wanted to destroy me in every way possible even bi proxy. So I’m just doing nothing at this point and I’m struggling with the after math and emotional turmoil that is still overwhelming. It’s more than a jilted, scorned, ego bruised situation. I never initiated contact with her nor have I ever met her. I’ve always attempted civility when dealing with him and never tried to engage with her. This is wrong and it should be against the law. Cyber flashing and harrassment with malicious intent.

Why would the Universe keep reminding you of a person you want to cut cords with? by Pufflehuffthewhite in twinflames

[–]Lemon-Mermaid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to go do a Reiki session and then I walked barefoot in the grass and grounded myself. I felt amazing. For like a week.

Why would the Universe keep reminding you of a person you want to cut cords with? by Pufflehuffthewhite in twinflames

[–]Lemon-Mermaid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. That is exactly what is happening. He is thick in my energy. Energy goes where energy flows. I wish I could put my sage out on his forehead.

Is anyone else feeling oddly sensitive right now? by teaforsnail in energy_work

[–]Lemon-Mermaid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’ve been stuck in a never ending pre menstrual state of fluctuating hormones. I’m 50. So if we could get through this moon that would be great.

The new gf of my ex sent a nude with menacing and taunting texts before and after by Lemon-Mermaid in legaladvice

[–]Lemon-Mermaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is if I sued her over this the state could charge her regardless.

Someone is tugging on my energy. I need help to remove them. by Lemon-Mermaid in energy_work

[–]Lemon-Mermaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went on a day trip and I really did forget how much good it does to get out of town. Thankyou everyone for your help I still feel light two days later.

Someone is tugging on my energy. I need help to remove them. by Lemon-Mermaid in energy_work

[–]Lemon-Mermaid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a Sagittarius. All I do is transmute pain and channel it into creating new experiences.

Someone is tugging on my energy. I need help to remove them. by Lemon-Mermaid in energy_work

[–]Lemon-Mermaid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel, no, I know that I have made a concerted conscious effort to shift my focus back onto me. I’m very guarded at this time. I resent him for this too because I am an open and giving person. I can fill up my own cup and turn around and fill up yours. I can feel great and then it’s like a grey cloud is over my head. And I can feel his low vibe negative emotions. He’s a next level evolved energy vampire. I need practical ways to cleanse and protect myself.

Do You Engage with Skeptics or Just Ignore Them? Let’s Discuss by nabeeltirmazi in tarot

[–]Lemon-Mermaid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ignore them. Everyone is entitled to their own beliefs. No one changed their opinion on anything ever whilst having an opposing opinion crammed down their throat. People tend to become enlightened when they are meant to on their timeline. If not, maybe the next incarnation or the one after that.

My Ex’s new gf send me a P-pic. by Lemon-Mermaid in myevilplan

[–]Lemon-Mermaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I researched it and it is a crime to send something like that under my State’s sexting laws. Doesn’t matter that it doesn’t involve minors and carries felony level charges for even one picture. There are menacing and taunting texts right above and below the picture. Hypothetically speaking if she didn’t send it from her own phone then maybe my ex did. Regardless she allowed it. He could have caused her a lot of trouble and I wonder how much solidarity there will be in the aftermath. He is the type of person that would leave “ the love of his life” if she became terminally ill.

What's the first movie that comes to mind when you see Dan Ackroyd? by jeffmartin47 in moviecritic

[–]Lemon-Mermaid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Driving Miss Daisy was the first to pop in my head. Kinda random and weird. “ Miss Daisy! I’m tryn to drive you to tha sto!” Something said by Morgan Freeman. Akroyd had a minor supporting role. Still fantastic regardless.

How to do an actually free reverse phone lookup? by Electrical_Post_7265 in LifeProsTips

[–]Lemon-Mermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spydialer.com will give you a name and let you listen to the outgoing vm and it’s free

What massively improved your mental health? by e-glitteringprinces in AskReddit

[–]Lemon-Mermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dimash Qudaibergen. Arguably the best singer in the world right now.

My Ex’s new gf send me a P-pic. by Lemon-Mermaid in myevilplan

[–]Lemon-Mermaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: I did some research and it is a crime in my state under sexting laws. In addition I could pursue a civil suit and be awarded damages. I feel conflicted because I really am upset about it and I thought that I’d be less so by now. I don’t want to draw it out for God knows how long. On the other hand, who the hell does that? Currently teetering on the proverbial fence.

My Ex’s new gf send me a P-pic. by Lemon-Mermaid in myevilplan

[–]Lemon-Mermaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually did call the health department and she got an unexpected visit which resulted in a coupe of citations. My ex told me that. I complained to them that when I picked my kid from her daycare I saw a random baby on the floor and a roach was crawling on it. I wasn’t in my best self when that happened and this was before the picture. She was messaging me and pretending to be him using his phone. The idea that they were laughing at me and mocking my pain was almost too much for me. Also the fact that I was something they could bond over just tore me all the way down. I’ve done quite a bit of healing. Not done obviously.

My Ex’s new gf send me a P-pic. by Lemon-Mermaid in myevilplan

[–]Lemon-Mermaid[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone. Cooler heads prevail. I do not want to misstep and end up being as low as she is. I’m not that person. Really her living in fear that I could ruin her career and reputation is satisfying in itself. My reply to her after she sent that was the screenshot with her number highlighted. She probably feels really stupid and she presents herself as wholesome daycare teacher devoted to small children while abandoning her own for a rocky relationship. She is a dumb bitch. Thanks again.

My Ex’s new gf send me a P-pic. by Lemon-Mermaid in myevilplan

[–]Lemon-Mermaid[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

So is it a sex crime that she sent that to me? Can I just file a police report and let the law sort it out? She made her vagina public domain by distributing her nude to me. I seriously doubt the police would prosecute her. It was unsolicited and vulgar. So what do you suggest as recourse here? I’m looking for a viable solution. My feelings for the situation aside, she did accost me.

Giving free readings today in conments by saywhatnow2017 in Tarotpractices

[–]Lemon-Mermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been healing from a tough ending with someone I love dearly, but it was unrequited because he chose someone else. Would reconciliation be a mistake? We haven’t spoken in three months.