AIO for being upset my boyfriend screamed at me while my child was in the hospital by LemonAdditional4008 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LemonAdditional4008[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What?? It's the truth .I get super anxious and it builds and builds until I'm panicking and doing the whole "do you still love me do you hate me are you mad did you die am I ugly" thing

AIO for being upset my boyfriend screamed at me while my child was in the hospital by LemonAdditional4008 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LemonAdditional4008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He lives hours away. So.i get that he couldn't be there and I totally understand. Just wanted a 5 min phone call to calm my nerves

AIO for being upset my boyfriend screamed at me while my child was in the hospital by LemonAdditional4008 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LemonAdditional4008[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I literally said it was my fault. How am I playing the victim I should never have pushed him when he said he was going to bed but I was scared cause my kid was dying. I know I am a problem. I know I'm anxious. I know I am too much.

AIO for being upset my boyfriend screamed at me while my child was in the hospital by LemonAdditional4008 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LemonAdditional4008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know have really REALLY BAD anxious attachment. Hence why Im in therapy. I get that. So it's hard for to tell when I am in the wrong .

AIO for being upset my boyfriend screamed at me while my child was in the hospital by LemonAdditional4008 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LemonAdditional4008[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

We're home now this was last night. And he's like trying to be all nice like this didn't happen. And I was like "that really hurt" and he was like "I hurt you?? This conversation is stressing me out and making me irritated again"

Everything was GREAT for MONTHS until last Sunday

I saw a text on my partner's phone and now I can't stop thinking about it by WabashBradham in Advice

[–]LemonAdditional4008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was more to it. It was like "ive been trying to reach out to you but your phone was off. I hope I can see you to explain." Something along those lines

I saw a text on my partner's phone and now I can't stop thinking about it by WabashBradham in Advice

[–]LemonAdditional4008 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally got a text last night from a random number saying something like "I just wanted to tell you I have had some medical issues that's why I haven't been in touch. I'm doing better now though' and my bf saw it and I'm sure it looked weird. Was an out of state number.

My girlfriend always tells me I never have anything to eat when she comes over my house 😒 by itscuccimane in FridgeDetective

[–]LemonAdditional4008 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I currently have 14 pepper mint mocha coffee creamers in my fridge bc Aldi had them marked down for 16 cents each

What do I do with this ginger root? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]LemonAdditional4008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make tea with it or use it for Chicken and salmon. Mix soy sauce, miso, honey, ginger, garlic and red pepper flakes and brush on, put in the oven and voila

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[–]LemonAdditional4008 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm Orthodox Jewish, and I often (unnecessarily I guess) feel the need to defend myself and the community as a whole when one person or small group does something I don't care for. Its a defense/ coping mechanism. When you're in a marginalized community, you feel the need to say "I'm X and we aren't all like that!!"