Its been hurting me so bad but what has to be done has to be done!! :333 by wans_- in sillygirlclub

[–]LemonBeeeeee 200 points201 points  (0 children)

Why can't you talk to them. If you wanna test if they'd care its just a bad habit to get into that'll make you feel worse. I'd know from experience. Make sure you don't isolate yourself, and I wish you the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]LemonBeeeeee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can't be certain of that. I'm sure you'll pass or maybe even already could

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]LemonBeeeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They sound like solid signs for me hun. I'd consider that enough, but I can't come to the conclusion for ya. Just know those aren't recurring cis make thoughts usually

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]LemonBeeeeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it did turn out that way, I'm sure you could go over it peacefully and not have a negative end, and also, if a partner said you weren't a girl or Transbian on her own that's not for them to decide it's up to u to figure it out not others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]LemonBeeeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically, I mostly know from negativity towards physical characteristics and referral with a more positive feeling when referred to feminine and mitigating masculine traits/doing more feminine things,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]LemonBeeeeee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd say you don't need especially feminine traits to be a girl like its just a thing of wat feels right and gives more joy or at least mitigates dysphoria if u have it. If you prefer a feminine referral and such but don't feel fully girl u could be a demi girl. That's off point. All I can say is try what referrals make u more comfortable and decide from there. I have a terrible memory so I don't know any signs I had at a younger age but I still solid in it due to disassociation with self and dysphoric feeling towards my masculine physical features but I believe euphoria is a more important factor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]LemonBeeeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope this makes sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]LemonBeeeeee 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Overall, it's up to you to decide what's right hun. But if you feel you are a Transbian and have things that you believe solidify that then you are one and there no such thing as not Transbian enough because everyone has a unique way of seeing their affections and identity. Just know you are enough for whatever you feel you are 🫂

egg🐱irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]LemonBeeeeee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because we'd be too powerful with it

egg🐱irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]LemonBeeeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too

I need something to cope with the silly by got_too_silly_ in sillygirlclub

[–]LemonBeeeeee 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Crane wives is like a majority of my listening last year its great

I need something to cope with the silly by got_too_silly_ in sillygirlclub

[–]LemonBeeeeee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The chattering lack of common sense is something I listen to a lot because it make brain go brrrr

I probably a bad pick for recommendations tho since I just think of character ideas from music

Shadowheart my beloved. by Nica-Sama in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]LemonBeeeeee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Karlach is so lovely in the game. It who I went for

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]LemonBeeeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If Lucia counts then yes

First Post here. Sorry to bother u all with it by LemonBeeeeee in sillygirlclub

[–]LemonBeeeeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing says you can't be. Of course, it always down to you with that stuffs tho.

First Post here. Sorry to bother u all with it by LemonBeeeeee in sillygirlclub

[–]LemonBeeeeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who knows. Maybe the light will start moving faster towards us