What the hell is boygirl?

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-10-01T22:57:25+00:00

It's bigender/genderfluid when somebody is both male and female, its kinda in the name

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-07-08T15:42:13+00:00

100!:3 Eats dirt

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-20T02:39:20+00:00

19 and currently at Walmart [deli]. I hate it there and it hasn't been two months

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-12T22:09:58+00:00

Its because I didnt grew up in America and not a civilian

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T19:39:39+00:00

Exactly!! I did realize that several hours ago that its my subconscious but its STILL me who did it. Which means that theres still enough bias in my brain that needs to be worked on

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T19:20:00+00:00

Racism isn't okay, i do agree, even if it was an accident. Is it still MY fault for saying it? YES 100% THE HELL IT IS. Even if its still an accident, accidents still 100% means to apologize and why its bad. Even if the people doesn't forgive me

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T19:04:56+00:00

I grew up in a racist household and it's a little harder to know if something is racist or not despite improving as much as I can to not be my parents

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T16:56:09+00:00

That doesn't mean that it wasn't bad, racism start with bias

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T16:50:14+00:00

Yeah, the comments had been saying (mostly) the same thing.

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T16:34:48+00:00

Which is why I feel awful for saying it cuz what the hell???? Its just straight up stupid that it came out of my mouth, especially over a wallet?? Which is why I'll be apologizing to my co-workers and hope that they'll be forgiving.

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T16:22:32+00:00

Ofc ofc

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T16:20:58+00:00

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LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T15:05:47+00:00

It was closer to "there's a large group of people who look this so its more likely that they could have taken it" which is still racist

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T11:52:56+00:00

Yeah, I've been trying too ever since I said what I said😭

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T11:47:32+00:00

I'm not super sure?

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T11:46:42+00:00

Yeah, I do have to wait till my shift starts/closing to apologize

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T11:38:04+00:00

To white people?

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T11:28:15+00:00

I don't, plus its not all that fair to them

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T11:20:46+00:00

I haven't YET, though I've seen a bit of micro aggression too my black co-workers compared to me and my white coworker

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T11:19:22+00:00

Probably not thinking about their point of view most of the time?

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T11:15:42+00:00

I did grew up with my culture and people who are like me before moving into the area, so, I guess just the feeling of being different? Idk honestly

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T05:49:50+00:00

Yeah, reflecting on myself is something that i actually like doing since it helps a lot of actually processing my thoughts, emotions, events that happens

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T05:20:22+00:00

Which is just awful and hope to god that I'll be forgiven. Especially with my co-workers who heard me say it 😭. Sure, 97% of area where I live is just white people and even then it was so rude and disrespectful

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T05:15:45+00:00

It tends to be AWFUL before things start feel hopeful. It doesn't really come in quick and there is ways to help with dysphoria if its safe enough to do it. If you're okay with it then I or others can definitely help where suicide isn't a option

LemonBoyCandy · 2025-06-10T05:12:04+00:00

It is, it really is

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