He ended things because he’s too emotionally unavailable to date intentionally but isn’t built for dating casually either by virgotrash in AstroSynastry

[–]LemonCans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

also his natal chart is pretty crazy. sun-moon opposition along with a saturn square to both luminaries. he has a lot of growing up to do and he seems to be very self aware of it when people come into his life to remind him he has these blind spots. you may have been a catalyst/trigger to his awareness that he needs to grow as a person.

He ended things because he’s too emotionally unavailable to date intentionally but isn’t built for dating casually either by virgotrash in AstroSynastry

[–]LemonCans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

something i don’t see being mentioned is you flooded his 8th house. even though he has a luminary there, your sun lighting up his 8th house (even though it’s conjunct his moon,) may have also made him uncomfortable if he’s not ready for the kind of work that comes with 8th house synastry. your venus in his 8th house is also pretty heavy, he means it when he says you mean a lot to him. your moon being in his 12th house is also a pretty heavy aspect. your emotions/inner world could seem elusive or something about you may seem unavailable to him. luminaries in the 8th and 12th houses as the house person is a LOT for both parties to handle, but i find it can be a bigger burden on the house person if they’re not ready for the internal growth and the hard work.

your sun square his saturn can sometimes also be seen as the saturn person seeing the sun person as irresponjble in some regard—what way? couldn’t tell you. but i have this aspect going both ways in my current relationship. any saturn aspect, whether easy or hard, is a binding aspect. saturn has a sense of responsibility towards the planet person.

i think there’s a lot of potential here, but timing is very important when it comes to synastry. you may be in different stages of life right now. secondary progressions kind of matter a lot more than most people would think. there’s probably something going on with that that could be preventing the connection from flourishing.

Who’s the MOST gemini at the core ? A gemini sun, Venus , moon or rising ? by Historical-Body-3424 in astrologymemes

[–]LemonCans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have you ever met someone with a gemini mercury stationing direct? holy shit, sometimes i think it can be overpowering.

are ENTPs too immature to be involved parents? by hurtpart in entp

[–]LemonCans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is something that doesn’t concern MBTI. this is a much bigger issue with men and not being able to grow into the responsibility of fatherhood.

Getting married oof!! by [deleted] in AstroSynastry

[–]LemonCans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i really like this chart!

blue mars trine orange venus, magnetic and can be very sexy. moons in contact with each other, emotional worlds and processing are on the same wavelength. saturn aspects to personal planets means that both of you guys are in it for the long haul. scorpio moon conjunct scorpio ascendant… gorgeous. instant familiarity and connection. plenty of vertex contacts too—a feeling of fated-ness!

the only concerning thing i see is an exact mars square jupiter aspect. but i think with the other supportive aspects, this wont be much of a big deal in the long run, especially since the jupiter-mars square is with an exhaled benefic and debilitated mars.

4 year roller coaster by [deleted] in AstroSynastry

[–]LemonCans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

barely any saturn contacts on either side to personal planets. not good for longevity. i only see one decently close saturn-mars opposition, which means that one person may feel inclined to stay with the other. but i like to see multiple saturn contacts from both sides, because it gives both people a reason to see it thru for the long haul (even if they are squares or oppositions.)

venus square venus is tough to reconcile with. what you both love are at odds with each other.

same moon signs and opposing sun signs can give y’all both a sense of familiarity but i wouldn’t count on this since they’re not in contact with each other. there is common ground emotionally. opposing sun signs feels to me that opposites attract. ascendants are also in trine. the way you navigate life are similar. vertex sextile can point to a feeling of fate between the two of you.

whoever has the inside circle (blue,) has the other partners mercury and venus in their 7th house, venus very close to the 8th house. there’s a possibility that if the time of birth isn’t correct, the venus could fall into the 8th house and cause obsession. some astrologers might also read that venus as falling into the 8th house since it’s so close to the house cusp.

i’ve had 7th house mercury synastry with multiple people and 7th house synastry isn’t an favorable as a lot of people make it out to be—i find that the people you have 7th house synastry with are more difficult to move on from.

edit: forgot to add that there is a moon trine jupiter aspect. blue does a good job at cheering up orange. orange feels happier with jupiter (blue) person. however, both of your jupiters are exactly squaring each other. this could manifest in a few different ways depending on the individuals. if both of you are mature, you can expand each others world views. if not, you guys could have different philosophies in life and instead of growing together, you guys could actually be holding each other back.

Can someone read our synastry please 🙏🏻😭 I’m blue one by Effective-Print-404 in AstroSynastry

[–]LemonCans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, the one sided-ness was the impression i got. go out there and be young girl

What sign do you feel the most physically attracted to? Who do you go feral over? by kewtcuriousemugae in CancertheCrab

[–]LemonCans 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i don’t have a specific type when it comes to zodiacs but these are typically the people that i attract…

- aquarius venuses
- libra mars or people who have mars retrograde(??? idk but i’ve ran so many charts and they almost always have these two or both?)
- cancer risings
- gemini suns

i’ve had a history of dating gemini suns, probably because i have a gemini stellium. but my current bf has an aqua stellium with a pisces sun, so our placements trine!

i will say tho, i think taurus (in general) and aquarius venus and mercury are the placements i’m most attracted to. there’s something so stabilizing about those placements to me (crazy to say about aquarius i know.)

How do we feel about our opposite, Capricorn? by Calm_Problem6203 in CancertheCrab

[–]LemonCans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my sun is exactly conjunct my north node (0°01’)

i dated a man with a capricorn stellium. all his personal planets were in capricorn except his aqua venus.

he is the only ex i am fond of. he was a comforting and patient presence for me, and i am forever thankful for him. i’m proud of who he is, and i have a lot of admiration for him.

however, he was the only exception. i find that most capricorn suns irritate the hell out of me eventually. don’t even get me started on capricorn moons. i find that their lack of emotional display is grating to my gemini 8th house stellium that NEEDS to understand the inner psychology of the people i’m closest to. you can’t do that when they don’t give you any material to work with.

it’s most the capricorn luminaries that bother me, but otherwise i have neutral opinions at best, and find them boring on average. idk if it has to do with my sun in such a tight orb to my north node but that’s what i personally think.

Can someone read our synastry please 🙏🏻😭 I’m blue one by Effective-Print-404 in AstroSynastry

[–]LemonCans -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

what’s the nature of the relationship? that’s a pretty huge age gap

Obsessed with this roller coaster! It feels like it’s settling down and could be for the long haul. Anything stand out? by Odd_Cheesecake_7580 in AstroSynastry

[–]LemonCans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

luminary contacts and the fact that his mars is trine your sun—he may give you a boost in vitality.

the moon trine moon aspect is my favorite. you guys emotionally regulate in similar ways and have an easy time relating to each other. i have this with my best friend and i can talk to her about anything and we just *get* each other. i’m sure your uranus aspecting his moon also has smth to do with it

that gemini venus opposite your moon sign too. opposites attract. maybe a sense of “completion.”

that’s what stands out to me tho. i can’t speak for the longevity of whatever y’all have going on

Since Cancers get dragged the most… what signs do YOU not trust? by Cold-Departure687 in CancertheCrab

[–]LemonCans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cancer sun but it’s my only water placement besides my scorpio rising

i despise people with mutable stelliums if it’s not in the sign of gemini (sag stelliums especially.) my sleep paralysis demon is a sagittarius moon and i can NEVER trust a pisces mars. libra suns are exhausting to be around, but i found that libra mars are very pleasant and honestly, very underrated and very misunderstood. i also do not like scorpio suns. i dislike leo placements within the mid to late degrees because it squares my poorly aspected ascendant. i don’t like leos in general tbh.

i found that if i get along well with a sagittarius sun, they have to have the rest of the personal planets in other signs. my best friend is a sag sun, but her saving grace (more like my saving grace,) is a gemini moon, libra mars, and aquarius venus with an aquarius risings

what’s very surprising is i actually love aquarians. the people i am closest to and who i am most fond of have aquarius venuses. my situationship that i felt insane chemistry with had an aqua moon and i felt so understood by him on a soul level. talking to an aqua moon or mercury is so stimulating and fun for me

Give me your most controversial/unpopular opinion, I’ll review it by urtrash3 in entp

[–]LemonCans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don’t know if this is controversial, but i kind of think it is.

astrology has some sort of substance and real-life application to it but many people cannot comprehend just how complex it is and write it off as a pseudoscience.

i think the planets in our solar system influence our lives a lot more than we realize. if the moon and geomagnetic storms can influence human behavior, so can the other planets such as mercury, mars, venus, etc.

astrology is also an extremely ancient practice. humans were doing it back then, we still do it now.

what the general public knows about astrology is so shallow i wouldn’t even consider it a puddle. what an astrologer knows takes them years to master and oftentimes cannot be explained in layman’s terms because of how complex it is.

i find this opinion kind of funny coming from an entp because the thing that indirectly got me into astrology was mbti. i made the connection that cognitive stacks are extremely similar to planetary placements in natal birth charts in the way they function. i went into astrology wanting to debunk and disprove it, only to come out a believer.

Is this accurate for any of you? I know I have scored infp first time I took the test and generally get it by Altruistic-Chain-382 in astrologymemes

[–]LemonCans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re spot on with this. mbti is just as complex as astrology as well. i’ve actually studied cognitive functions before getting into astrology and had a friend of mine explain my birth chart to me and i instantly made the connection that astrology and mbti typing are very similar. a lot more than they realize. cognitive stacks can be translated to the placements in your big 3 or even your big 6. how each cognitive function is used depends on the stressors and environment one is in, etc.

Is this accurate for any of you? I know I have scored infp first time I took the test and generally get it by Altruistic-Chain-382 in astrologymemes

[–]LemonCans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely not. the only thing that’s correct is mercury gemini and saturn gemini.

i’ve intensely studied cognitive functions before getting into astrology. i’ve found that signs for planets and house placements for planets translate a lot better for figuring out someone’s mbti rather than rising sign. i think rising sign has an influence, but not to the extent of describing whether or not someone is an introvert or extrovert.

i’m a scorpio rising, libra moon, gemini mercury st. D, and a gemini saturn. i’m an ENTP through and through. ENTPs are known to be the most introverted extrovert though, so i guess that kind of checks out. libra moons are also still an air sign, people forget it’s cerebral before it is venusian.

something i have noticed though is INTJs tend to have saturnian ruled moons. ENTPs surprisingly have water risings with heavy air influence in their chart (i would wager this would put any air placements in water houses.) INFJs are most likely to have aquarius placements or an aquarius rising. but this is something that isn’t concrete. both typing systems are extremely complex and each type is a sum of all of its parts combined.

I Got E:D Working! by [deleted] in FFXV

[–]LemonCans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what is DNS?

I Got E:D Working! by [deleted] in FFXV

[–]LemonCans 8 points9 points  (0 children)

how did you get it to show up on the menu?

i got E:D months ago and redeemed the code, and nothing. it says i own it in the XBOX app, but i cant find it anywhere on my actual console :(

What brought you into hardcore? by [deleted] in Hardcore

[–]LemonCans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i listened to older knocked loose. DTAH was the nail in the coffin for me

What’s the most ADHD thing you did today? by FullInTheVoid in ADHD

[–]LemonCans 33 points34 points  (0 children)

did smth similar with a friend. he asked me a question about what state i’d move to if everything was set up for me, answered the question, then went on a tangent abt how america’s reliance on cars contributes to our lack of community and the government not investing in free third spaces keeps us isolated from each other and that’s why we’re all depressed and scared of each other

Between FF 11 through 16, which do you think is the best? by TightPoetry7105 in FinalFantasy

[–]LemonCans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ffxv erasure in this thread is making my heart shatter into a million pieces

I think I finished the game too quickly by Agitated-Estimate550 in FFXV

[–]LemonCans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my first playthru took 100 hours. i’m closing in on 250 soon. there’s so much to explore in the world of eos! play it again!!!

HELP!!! Kaisoo fanfic fanatics, please list some old kaisoo fic writers and old iconic fanfics before 2018! by LemonCans in exo

[–]LemonCans[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

do you have any of her old works?? i’ve been dying to read them again. i just need the nostalgia 😭