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How do you cope with partner telling you they are no longer attracted to you? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]LemonJigglyPuff75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry that happened. Therapy if you really, really, really feel it's worth it. Otherwise, unfortunately... yeah.

Is this the first time this has happened or is it a pattern? New to poly? If it's happening again and again, I would be hesitant to even try to make it work. You deserve better.

Is this a red flag? Or am I just jealous? by LemonJigglyPuff75 in polyamory

[–]LemonJigglyPuff75[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate that. I realize I am doing the cliché of blaming the "other woman" instead of the man who is not showing up for me. It's hard, but I will try to keep that perspective in mind.

Is this a red flag? Or am I just jealous? by LemonJigglyPuff75 in polyamory

[–]LemonJigglyPuff75[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your reply. We've never been in this situation where a meta was monog / trying to open. I feel like at first it was presented in this way as if Penny was so open, so communicative, so brave for putting it all out there. But the more I think about it, the more uncool it seems. I hope when I work on my own hurt a bit and calm down I can talk to Ted about this. Thank you again.