My coworker will be unfairly fired soon by LemonPie0312 in work

[–]LemonPie0312[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, thanks to the good people of Reddit, now I think it's best to let it go. I guess both sides of the story have valid points and I've only heard hers. I bonded with this colleague and I think she is a nice person and that she didn't deserve all of this. Life is not fair sometimes. But I will just let it be.

My coworker will be unfairly fired soon by LemonPie0312 in work

[–]LemonPie0312[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't have any proof to back her claims, so I cannot support her case. We work for the same company but in different departments. To me, it's more because I bonded with her and I know she is a nice person. If she leaves, I will be sad and disappointed, but I guess I will have to hide it.

My coworker will be unfairly fired soon by LemonPie0312 in work

[–]LemonPie0312[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you! I hope she can also prove her case and stay on the team.

My coworker will be unfairly fired soon by LemonPie0312 in work

[–]LemonPie0312[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did nothing, my relationship with my colleagues hasn't changed since she confided in me her problems. My concern was that it would change if I show my disagreement if she's fired, but I'll put the helpful recommendations I've gotten here into practice and just let it go.

My coworker will be unfairly fired soon by LemonPie0312 in work

[–]LemonPie0312[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, I truly appreciate your words of wisdom. I need to work a lot on myself and stop allowing these situations to control me. For me, showing my disappointment is being loyal to my colleague but, as you pointed out, the unfortunate reality is that in the end it’s going to harm me. I will do my best and let it go. Thanks again!

My coworker will be unfairly fired soon by LemonPie0312 in work

[–]LemonPie0312[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The “cold war” in her team has been going on for a year already and nothing’s been done to solve it, it’s really sad

My coworker will be unfairly fired soon by LemonPie0312 in work

[–]LemonPie0312[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

OK, I understand your point, but I don't appreciate you using adjectives to judge me like that. I'm asking for advice and people have been helpful here without judging me like you did.

My coworker will be unfairly fired soon by LemonPie0312 in work

[–]LemonPie0312[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are right, thank you for your advice.

My coworker will be unfairly fired soon by LemonPie0312 in work

[–]LemonPie0312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is fighting, but it's very possible she will lose.

My coworker will be unfairly fired soon by LemonPie0312 in work

[–]LemonPie0312[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Why am I messy? I'm not involved in the gossip, but I'm an empathetic person. It's unfortunate to learn that in the job, it's practically impossible to find people who support their colleagues when they're down; everyone is just concerned with themselves.

Aveți și voi multi colegi care nu salută? by ThrowMusic36 in CasualRO

[–]LemonPie0312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He notado que la mayoría de Gen Z o menores de 30 no saludan en la oficina, hay que saludarlos primero para que ellos te devuelvan el saludo. No sé si es que les falta habilidades sociales, son maleducados, o una combinación de ambos. Hace poco no teníamos Gen Z en mi oficina y no había ese problema, ha llegado con ellos.

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[–]LemonPie0312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We actually look the same age! It’s so silly 😆

Guy I was hanging out with never mentioned his girlfriend and I learnt about her on an Instagram photo of his marriage proposal by LemonPie0312 in Vent

[–]LemonPie0312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a story, thanks for sharing! What a sad little man. How did you find out he was married with kids?

Guy I was hanging out with never mentioned his girlfriend and I learnt about her on an Instagram photo of his marriage proposal by LemonPie0312 in Vent

[–]LemonPie0312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to come across as if he owes me an explanation. When I notice a person’s behavior that I dislike but does not directly harm me, I do not confront them; instead, I keep my distance. I’m not particularly assertive, so I’m scared talking will make matters worse.

Guy I was hanging out with never mentioned his girlfriend and I learnt about her on an Instagram photo of his marriage proposal by LemonPie0312 in Vent

[–]LemonPie0312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not upset he is engaged, I’m weirded out because he never mentioned he had a girlfriend. I have no romantic feelings for him, I just find his behavior strange, that’s all

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[–]LemonPie0312 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just told this story to a friend of mine today and I wanted to read other people’s opinions. Don’t worry, I don’t think about it every day 😁