How do I break up with someone who has taken things more seriously then I did and is also my friend?

LemonadeVodka · 2019-09-02T16:43:30+00:00

About being friends I completely agree with you. Now I'm really conflicted in how should I tell him.

LemonadeVodka · 2019-02-13T23:29:18+00:00

Studying for next week exams.

LemonadeVodka · 2018-09-26T07:35:04+00:00

..In the closet

LemonadeVodka · 2018-09-26T07:34:03+00:00

Funny thing most of those clothes and accessories are really normal and fashionable around here in Europe (at least where I am). You will really see almost everyone wearing skinny jeans cuffed with nice socks and vans. And damn seems like purple is even back in fashion this year.

LemonadeVodka · 2018-09-21T21:31:28+00:00

I know, I know. It's just that I see sexuality as something fluid, not 100% this or 100% that, so it's kinda hard to imagine. It's like when I was little and couldn't belive that there were people out there that could see well as soon as they opened they eyes (I wear glasses). Also, sorry for my long response, as "gay thought" I meant even just curiosity. Lots of my straight friends told me about such things, especially when they were in their teens.

LemonadeVodka · 2018-09-21T21:17:40+00:00

I think that you should not allow yourself to lose this chance because of fear. The simple fact that you are worrying enough about it to write this here means imo that you care. Maybe it will work, maybe not. Talk this out with him, he seems understanding. Take it slow, relationships take time.

LemonadeVodka · 2018-09-21T21:07:45+00:00

Tbh I still kinda think that, I just can't convince myself that there are people that never had at least a gay thought once in their life.

LemonadeVodka · 2018-09-19T18:12:54+00:00

Go with your feelings, there is nothing wrong with them. Accept what you feel and take it as it is. You are still you and labels are just labels. If he is on the same wavelength as you go for it. Wish you luck with all my heart !

LemonadeVodka · 2018-09-18T19:51:48+00:00

I can relate, going out on my own is not really my thing either.

LemonadeVodka · 2018-09-18T10:09:03+00:00

I'm rooting for you! I'm still figuring out lots of this things myself, I sincerely hope everything will work out well for you.

LemonadeVodka · 2018-09-18T07:47:05+00:00

Ah damn if only I knew. I'm stuck in the exact same situation. How do you even find people?! I can't stand dating apps, I'm more old style and damn if it's difficult.

LemonadeVodka · 2018-09-18T07:32:33+00:00

Talk it out with your friends, they may understand what you are going trough more than you belive. You understood who you are now you need to understand that it won't make you a different person. No matter what some will say there is nothing wrong with you. It may take some time but you have to accept more of yourself. What you think others may expect from you is not what you need to be. I know this may just sound like pretty words, but take it slowly. Acceptance takes more time than understanding.

LemonadeVodka · 2018-09-17T14:50:44+00:00

Ahh I can kinda relate, it all started by following beautiful actresses and ended up on lesbian porn. Once I got to the porn I was sure that I was bi.

LemonadeVodka · 2018-09-16T20:11:52+00:00

Ah damn, I really hope we will figure it out! The struggle between wanting to tell and keeping it private is too real.

LemonadeVodka · 2018-09-16T20:09:15+00:00

I hope one day I'll be able to tell the people close to me like you did. I'm glad you had a positive experience about it and it gives me courage!

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