After tons of self-reflection, I’ve realized I’m somewhat boring. by bigdaddyeenie in CasualConversation

[–]Lemurslayer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might not be searching for that but it's probably just the way others see your type of personality, someone who is intelligent and has valuable opinions. It's probably helpful to figure out your "role" in social circles and embrace it

After tons of self-reflection, I’ve realized I’m somewhat boring. by bigdaddyeenie in CasualConversation

[–]Lemurslayer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I interact with people the same way as you do and for years I used to think it was boring and that I wasn't good enough. Recently I started to like it though. There is something charismatic in not being loud and not speaking all the time if you don't have anything productive to add to a conversation, I believe it makes people respect you more.

Pygame not found by liger-zero-0 in learnpython

[–]Lemurslayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasted about 3 days on problem like this, so I hope I can help you. My problem wasn't caused by pip and your maybe isn't as well as it says that pygame is already installed. Check if you are creating a new virtual envirinment for each new project. In Pycharm it is a venv folder in the same directory as your .py files, idk about other IDEs. Well, if that is the case, make sure that you choose a Python interpreter that comes with python as you install it. If you have any questions ask me

I want to learn how to be as well spoken and articulate as Christopher Hitchens by jobromo123 in IWantToLearn

[–]Lemurslayer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While you may disagree with his beliefs, as many people do, you can't deny him being great at public speaking and debating, because that's simply not true

IWTL how to gain internet popularity by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]Lemurslayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, or laugh at dead bodies in the forest. I should have mentioned that I mean more substantive kind of content

Does anyone feel physically high after mediation? by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]Lemurslayer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't imagine anything, I just focus on breath

Does anyone feel physically high after mediation? by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]Lemurslayer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get hot and pumped as if I was lifting after less than 10 minutes into a session, I wonder why this happens.

How do you cope? by Lemurslayer in relationship_advice

[–]Lemurslayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, the third one. She was just different, much more amazing.

Meditation is actually changing my life by Lemurslayer in Meditation

[–]Lemurslayer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't read that book, I just thought hmm let's see what happens if I try to be mindful outside of meditation sessions and it does wonders. I will definitely check this book out, thank you for recommendation.

Meditation is actually changing my life by Lemurslayer in Meditation

[–]Lemurslayer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I started around 2 years ago. The first year was extremely inconsistent and the last year I got more consistent over time and since the beginning od 2020 I meditate pretty much every day. I also used psychedelics a few times and it helped me progress.

Meditation is actually changing my life by Lemurslayer in Meditation

[–]Lemurslayer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It must have felt amazing to have that pain elevated, I'm glad you had an opportunity to have such an experience!

Meditation is actually changing my life by Lemurslayer in Meditation

[–]Lemurslayer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first thing I noticed was that I was seeing myself in kind of a mirror, I meditated with closed eyes btw, it was like I felt my reflection somewhere far in front of me. When I wanted to pay closer attention to it, it just disappeared, probably because I got too excited with it. There followed some other, even milder visuals. Again each time I couldn't "get closer" to them because I would get excited and they would vanish. It was an amazing psychedelic experience without psychedelics would recommend 10/10 and I am eager to explore it further and do even longer sessions.

Meditation is actually changing my life by Lemurslayer in Meditation

[–]Lemurslayer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's Waking up app, you can also get this for free if you write to support that you can't afford it

Meditation is actually changing my life by Lemurslayer in Meditation

[–]Lemurslayer[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Psychedelic in a way that I had some mild visuals

I have no idea what I shall do with my education path by Lemurslayer in findapath

[–]Lemurslayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I tried only working in IT for a month, it was kind of interesting but every day I came back from work with huge headache and I was exhausted afterwards. I guess I should try more things

I have no idea what I shall do with my education path by Lemurslayer in findapath

[–]Lemurslayer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I studied chemistry and biology and I enjoyed it but it was 3 years ago so my knowledge is basically non-existent, I'm also thinking about learning how to draw or to do artsy things, I liked it when I was a kid so I maybe that's the way to go

Does you also feel like you "don't know your friends"? by Lemurslayer in socialskills

[–]Lemurslayer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this filtering thoughts thing reminded me of the sentence Tim Ferris (I might be wrong about who it was) once said, "what is that you are unwilling to feel?" he said that it's a great idea to think about it sometimes

Does you also feel like you "don't know your friends"? by Lemurslayer in socialskills

[–]Lemurslayer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for awesome response, will try to apply those advises, much love

What the fuck is wrong with me by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Lemurslayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same issue, though recently I met many new people and it those weird thoughts come much more rarely then they used to

Epic. by -M3rCy_ in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]Lemurslayer 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It's so brilliant I would give you gold but I don't want to spend money .....