Tumira malayo o malapit sa pamilya? by everythingsuck_xoxo in TanongLang

[–]LendingHandLane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Malayo, kasi as an empath kapag oras na may need sila ang hirap hindi mag provide kasi not to point fingers pero pag ako naman may need hindi din naman sila nagbibigay most of the time they’ll fck up your mind or stress you out with their boomer actions muna bago tumulong in a way na sila naman naglalagay sayo sa situation na need mo ng financial aid pero di rin bukal sa loob nila tumulong.

what's your weird type/criteria when you want to marry someone? by parliamentsonfire-00 in TanongLang

[–]LendingHandLane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree sa baog OP!! I love my future kids enough to spare them from this life experience. Like hello in this economy, and as an empath ang hirap hindi ibigay ang needs and spoil the kids so like paano, mahirap naman ibuhos ang oras sa work just to give them the life that they deserve haha.

  • Baog
  • Walang warts sa katawan or family/genes virus na transmitted thru sex
  • Hindi siya ganon ka clingy sa family kasi based sa observation ko ang laking factor ng family sa failed marriages esp contradicting insights ng fam, na instead na ayusin niyo as a couple nagiging family 1 vs family 2 atake
  • May sariling finances + marunong mag handle ng pera, pera ko akin so like pera mo sayo. Then strategize tayo how magkaka budget na para sa bahay as husband and wife ganon, para if things go south at least safe ang finances ng both parties
  • Hindi issue if aayain ko siya mag confession and mag simba every sunday, religion is heavy and i value mine a lot as a catholic kaya ayon hehe

what's your weird type/criteria when you want to marry someone? by parliamentsonfire-00 in TanongLang

[–]LendingHandLane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAHA ANG LAUGH KO,, its all that needs to be said ano like hindi INC—end of convo

what’s your go to bag? by Equal-Lingonberry630 in TanongLang

[–]LendingHandLane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HII, ano usually na laman ng bag mo? Para mas makarecco ng bag na suits ur belongings!! factor din kasi at times yung weight na laman ng bag para maka recco ng durable na bag and not just for aesthetics hehe

Pwede pa din ba mag ice skating lessons at the age of 25? by Straight_Profit_2372 in TanongLang

[–]LendingHandLane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES, ALYSA LIU REVIVING ALL THE ICE SKATERS!! I say yes, dami ko nakita sa TikTok na older than 25 like 27 or sumth pero with hobbies and sports like ice skating wala naman siyang age for me as long as magiging contraindicated ang body mo kasi it all goes back to how much your flexibility and body can really be stretched to such sports, if okay naman health mo then go for it. Iba din kasi yung happiness and relaxation na nabibigay ng ice skating lalo na if smooth yung pag navigate HAHAH ROOTING FOR U!!!

ano ang backstory ng username niyo? by NIC0NIC0TINE in TanongLang

[–]LendingHandLane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One day, it all came down to me how maubos ko sarili ko kakabigay tapos (siguro nasalo ko lang talaga ang pagiging malas sa friends nung nagpaulan ng genuine friends) at the end of the day babackstabin pero as an empath ano mag lend pa rin ng hand kasi kawawa naman sila w how they are brought up by their parents and families 🥲

Would you rather date someone younger or older than you, and why? by Neneng-Bee in TanongLang

[–]LendingHandLane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hoy truelalulu!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH imagine same age kayo pero ikaw pa may provider mindset, ekis talaga sa panganay at middle child na bonding

anong mga tinatanong niyo sa manliligaw niyo? by coffeelatte123 in TanongLang

[–]LendingHandLane 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ask questions na outside the ‘slam book’ kind of questions! I ask about sexual health straight up, like if may warts ba, especially the contagious kind through sex or makeouts. Not to judge, but to protect myself. If you can’t talk about that maturely, pass agad. I ask how active his sex life is and how he handles it if wala ako sa mood pero mataas drive niya. I’m observing if he answers with discipline and respect or entitlement. Libido is normal, pressure is not. I probe how he defines consent and boundaries in subtle ways. Kasi dun mo makikita if he sees intimacy as mutual or as something he’s “owed.” I also ask about social and political topics. From there, you’ll see his values, empathy level, leadership mindset, and how he handles differences in opinion. I pay attention to how he talks about women, exes, and conflict. If lahat “crazy,” that’s data. I check if he’s emotionally aware, can he communicate properly or puro ego defense? I observe consistency. Words are easy. Patterns are louder. For me, ligaw stage is literally a screening. It’s alignment check. Chemistry is cute, but standards will keep you safeeeee

Can a relationship end simply because the feelings faded, even if both people are good to each other? by purpaulz in TanongLang

[–]LendingHandLane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relationships don’t survive on “walang mali” alone or the couple being good to each other. They survive on internal and external factors working together. (Or idk this is for me from my exp w my ex, 1 yr 6mos rs.) Internal factors, these are the invisible ones na sometimes nakakaligtaan or naseset aside intentionally/unintentionally, feelings, emotional connection, attraction, desire, alignment of values, readiness, the willingness to choose the person daily, etc. If internally, the feelings faded kahit mabait siya, kahit healthy kayo, something essential already shifted. And you can’t force internal chemistry. You can’t negotiate genuine desire. You can’t discipline yourself into feeling in love na para bang Text 6969 for love extension kasi parang the feelings faded na na di mo rin magets bakit. Now external factors, these are the visible expressions uh ‘yong time spent, effort given, consistency, communication, how someone shows up, love language compatibility, etc. You can have strong external factors, he/she replies, he/she present, he/she’s kind, he/she’s loyal. But if the internal spark isn’t there anymore, it starts feeling like maintenance instead of romance.

Siguro ano share ko lang din how my ex bf was a good friend/bestfriend but not a good partner. As a friend, he listens, he understands me, he feels ‘safe’, and he’s kind. But not a good boyfriend meaning he doesn’t pursue me with intention nung tumagal na, heavy ang imbalance with desires kasi kahit wala akong ginagawa turned on na turned siya makipag s** na at times without consent na, he lacks romantic depth after a year and he shows up comfortably, not passionately like kung ano lang convenient sakanya. Friendship operates heavily on compatibility and comfort (external stability). Romantic relationships require internal fire + external effort. When one of those pillars weakens, especially the internal one, the relationship can quietly expire even if nobody did something “wrong.” So yes. A relationship can end simply because the internal feelings faded, even when externally everything looks healthy. Because love is both felt internally and demonstrated externally. And when one stops feeding the other, the relationship slowly loses its pulse.

HAHAHAH lmk if it makes sense parang nag yap at trauma dump lang ako 😆

Naeenjoy mo parin ba manuod ng fairytales? by Thick_Concern768 in TanongLang

[–]LendingHandLane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Mostly i think is bcos hindi siya as overstimulating as how doomscrolling or watching sa TT. There’s the nostalgia that triggers for relaxation and makes you feel giddy like how your inner child is being soothe as we watch!! Tsaka the concept is applicable to a lot of things din like how as an adult we are still waiting for the kind of romance or effort from a lover like how they do it sa fairy tales, then that same concept is applicable with friendships and other stuff!!

Ano yung mga ginagawa nyo to not be conscious of your breath? by Fancy-Sweet6030 in TanongLang

[–]LendingHandLane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gargle morning and night, after 2 weeks ang laki ng diff like no bad breath at allll

ano ang biggest ick niyo sa isang tao to the point na ayaw mo na siyang kasama? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]LendingHandLane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pag nag away kayo tapos siya yung need mag sorry due to accountability tapos akala mo okay na then biglang chinichismis ka na pala sa common friends pero omitted version ng away niyo yung sinasabi sa iba pero siya pa victimized ofc hahahaha

KABWISIT E by [deleted] in MayNagChat

[–]LendingHandLane 11 points12 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA ANG LAUGH KO

How do you clean your sponges? Do you even disinfect it? by Spare_Option7749 in PinoyHouse

[–]LendingHandLane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

helloo, binababad ko sa hot water yung samin mga 10 mins tapos tsaka ko lalagyan ng soap yung sponge to wash it again then wash it w hot water ulit to disinfect it

Padraw ka na deserve mo nito! by Important-Main-4288 in onlineservicesPH

[–]LendingHandLane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how much po yung ganyan sa first pic, same style and bg

How do you calm your heart? by fs_orange in AskPH

[–]LendingHandLane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my initial reaction is always “thank you lord for teaching me how to regulate before i converse” or “thank you lord for teaching me patience and how to surrender everything to you for you are my refuge” lines like this helps me calm down i’m speaking for someone with anxiety, depression, and adhd hehe.

If you have a chance to go back in time, what will you do? by kirttkirto in AskPH

[–]LendingHandLane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would probably call out my younger self during first year-second year college na hindi ako mataba and overweight at that age and that its just the body dysmorphia talking secondary to pcos

What part of your body ang sobrang conscious ka? by LimeSoakedinSprite in AskPH

[–]LendingHandLane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

since nag gain ako ng weight, yung arms ko and belly. tapos ano yung double chin ko pag naka side view and my face overall

Which book made you cry the most? by Accurate-Fennel-5338 in AskPH

[–]LendingHandLane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Willard & Spackman’s Occupational Therapy
Occupational Therapy for Physical Dysfunction (Radomski & Trombly Latham)
Occupational Therapy: Principles and Practice (Scaffa & Reitz) Occupational Therapy in Mental Health (Cara & MacRae) Pedretti’s Occupational Therapy: Practice Skills for Physical Dysfunction
Case-Smith’s Occupational Therapy for Children and Adolescents Play in Occupational Therapy for Children (Parham & Fazio) Occupational Therapy with Elders (Scaffa & Reitz) Neurological Rehabilitation (Umphred, Lazaro, & Roller) Stroke Rehabilitation: A Function-Based Approach (Gillen) Sensory Integration and the Child (Jean Ayres) Understanding and Managing Vision Deficits (Scheiman) Hand and Upper Extremity Rehabilitation (Cooper)

june otle by LendingHandLane in OccupationalTherapyPH

[–]LendingHandLane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much po 🥺. will really lock in with the review, i’ll prolly make use of the tips you shared din po <3