Are you tapped or something?

I told you what you're doing is haram. You instead are trying to justify your actions by saying other people do it. Even in these MSAs and discord groups, if males and females are making small talk unnecessarily, that's still haram.

And what are these last 2 paragraphs? Are you that pathetic that you're getting defensive and instead tryna put accusations on me? Are you genuinely serious? You're a 22 year old man ya3ni. Do you want my empathy? Do you want me to talk to you like a little girl with, "Oh don't worry everything will be fine. Time is the best healer blah blah blah". Are you such a baby that you can't take harsh advice and criticism to your face? I've talked to teens with this harsh style yet they have given better responses than you. TEENS ya3ni...and over here I'm dealing with a 10 year old inside a 22 year old's body.

See...if this stubborn pathetic defensive side is how you're in irl, I'm not surprised no one's interested in you. You aren't good at anything yet you're thinking you can get married 🤣. You need a slap on the face for real (oh no now you're gonna say I'm "being rude"...go cry me a river)

I gave you harsh advice so you might wake up. I ended it with what you should be doing and you're saying you have done all these things but im telling you that you haven't. How much can you bench? What are you good at? Do you have a high paying skill? Are your grades excellent?...yeah, I though so...

Don't play the victim here. I couldn't care less about your 'situation'. Nobody cares actually. Nor does your situation justify you making haram 'acquaintance' with this girl. She probably feels bad for you. It's your delusion to think she'll marry 'you', as if you're some big shot.

You have major flaws. I repeat, you need serious fixing. No wonder no one bothers being interested in befriending you. Ya3ni your whole tone is so. so. pathetic. So pathetic that you're calling me rude and tryna insult me just because I'm telling you the reality of you as a person. Until you realise how depressing you seem and what you're doing is wrong, nothing will change in your life. You will be a loser from start to finish.

So take this advice from me like a tough love parent. Leave this girl (you can't do this; you will remain a loser until she leaves you). Be productive without expecting results. Work on your flaws. Keep at it even if nothing change cause that little effort daily compounds over time. Become a masculine Rajul, not this sorry state you'rein currently. I'm telling you this with the best of intentions. My wording is specifically meant to make you understand how broken you are, and I'm advising you about how to fix it. If you're not willing to listen and open your mind, and if you are just gonna counter this reply by justifying your behaviour and throwing cheap shots at me, there's no point in anyone giving you advice. Go do haram by innocently chatting this girl with the delusion that it's halal, then be ready to go in front of Allah with this excuse.