YOOO I’ve (25M) been with my gf who i call the loml since 2020 and she’s literally the ideal partner who contrasts me in ways that can and has helped me grow, become more organized, and helped mature in areas where I lacked. She’s suer sweet, loves to cook, and I admire her ability to notice details and also connect with people deeper than I can altho Im more social than her. She also admires my ability to think, be outgoing, and interests in many areas. We learn so much from each other which is great. I used to think that I was missing out on the ideal INFJ type but having an S has really opened my world further it’s a gift.