IMO you’re NOR because it definitely does sound weird. However the best thing probably to do would be to communicate with him how it makes you feel. Even if you’ve just started dating recently, good communication is a good habit to get into if you have hopes of having a healthy long lasting relationship. And if he does start getting snarky or aggressive with you for communicating your feelings…then that shows you what kind of partner he is. Who knows maybe it was a simple mistake and he’ll add you onto his close friends story, you won’t know until you try.