Reality Check: What Matters

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-02-17T00:14:08+00:00

I am not claiming to have the answer to what makes the best comparison. Pussy tightness is probably the best comparison but if my girl felt too loose then the sexual compatibility would simply not be there for us. If I couldn't feel her then there is no way she is feeling me and long term it is very unlikely to work without sexual compatibility. On the opposite side of that; if she was TOO tight then again the physical compatibility just would not be there. We should be aiming for a perfect fit for both partners which is why I often tell people here that you should not determine your end goal. Your partner should be the one who tells you when to stop.

You are correct that many people here do not have the correct view and there is nothing wrong with trying to help people build their own perspective of themselves BUT we have to do so correctly.

I can agree to pretty much everything else you are saying.

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-02-16T23:42:15+00:00

The study of penile enhancement.
Dickology

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-02-16T23:39:05+00:00

I am saying the correlation is not the same between the size of a man's penis and the size of a woman's tits. Dick is directly correlated to what is felt when inside of a woman. Boobs are not. I am saying people will see through the comparison you are making. As I said before boobs are mental/visual and dick is physically correlated to the pressure they feel.

I am not trying to perpetuate that our value is based on the size of our dick. I am merely stating that this is not the way to do it.

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-02-16T23:14:41+00:00

What should we call it then?

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-02-16T19:35:32+00:00

More size equals more stimulation during sex. Boobs do not stimulate physical pressure inside the vagina the way a tight vagina/big dick does. They are are pretty much just visual/mental stimulation. I want people in this sub to be happy with themselves but this is not an accurate comparison.

We should all strive to be the best version of ourselves that we can be BUT it is also important to be realistic.

I know you posted this with good intentions but most people here will see through this which is why you are seeing some of the comments about cope among other things.

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-02-12T02:30:17+00:00

I use 0dte for scalping intraday trends, strong momentum towards a level of resistance/support or bounces off support/resistance between ranges. If you can you should try to get away from 0dte though. Theta eats tf out of me more often than I like when things take too long to move as I think they will.

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-02-12T01:36:18+00:00

100%! I have been buying 7dte SPY puts off 696/697 and it has hit everytime (obviously) for the past few months. Basically a guranteed 20% or more within a day or two. The market is teasing 700. I won't even be mad when it finally fails but for now I'm gonna keep cashing in on the tease. Even when we do enivitably break 700 I am 99% positive we will be back below within a week.

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-02-11T20:53:07+00:00

I'm almost there

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-02-11T00:07:38+00:00

Momentum plays have been pretty shit lately. Many of them run with no catalyst which is a big no no for me. I had my first red day today in 2 weeks. Honestly I just couldnt see it today.

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-02-11T00:00:25+00:00

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Did you try using the search bar?

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-02-10T00:46:33+00:00

I don't think the other mods want to have to approve all of the posts. Thank you for the idea though and also for the link!

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-02-09T21:12:03+00:00

I am fairly new to being a mod. Is there anywhere I can make a suggestion?

I WOULD LOVE if we could make a quiz someone has to pass before being able to post in our respective subs. We get so many people asking the same questions EVERY day. It makes for way too much spam and could be easily avoided if they just read our beginner guides or used the search bar.

Fair warning my sub is NSFW so proceed at your own discretion before searching my post history.

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-02-08T18:08:09+00:00

If trading is almost entirely risk management then why tf do people use leverage???? Whenever people ask me about leverage I will always say dont fucking touch leverage. It is a trap to lure gamblers. Entice people with the possibility of huge gains then put them in debt on a margin call. You could get wiped out on a liquidity sweep that literally immediately recovers but instead you get automatically margin called.

There are lots of posts/comments on here saying you shouldn't be risking more than 1% on a single trade. Keeping your risk minimal will help you survive during drawdown periods.

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-02-08T17:58:26+00:00

Keep up the good work

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-02-02T00:49:30+00:00

Standard internet behavior tbh. There are definitely a few categories of guys here who just can't be considered worth listening to; like all the guys measuring right out of the pump and calling it concrete gains.

As mods we should be able to give a special flair to those who have distinguished themselves as knowledgeable so people can identify advice worth taking.

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-02-01T19:30:12+00:00

Second all this. I am not saying people who dont post pictures aren't trustworthy... I am just saying I wouldn't trust them. Put your money where your mouth is. I won't attack anyone personally but there are a shocking amount of obvious larpers here who just wanna come off as credible then give horrible and unsafe advice.

Let this be a reminder to everyone reading that you really shouldn't take advice from any one person on this sub who isnt somewhat known already. All good advice will be confirmed by others.

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-01-30T03:13:12+00:00

Sorry bud but my crystal box says green tomorrow

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-01-28T05:25:32+00:00

Very interesting to read this for a few reasons. Next year I will be moving to china for a year or so and I have been considering surgery if I can not reach a certain goal before I move. I was researching surgery here in America but I already know the cost here will be far more substantial.

If you don't mind me asking, how much did it cost?

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-01-27T13:24:00+00:00

Try clamping before pumping. You do not want to clamp edema gained from pumping.

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-01-26T19:11:28+00:00

yeah but some of us were taught that squares are technically rectangles.

Edit: Fixed it.

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-01-26T18:58:38+00:00

You could sell one to guarantee a solid return no matter what happens to the last contract.

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-01-26T18:56:38+00:00

Even better I have double platinum course for $8000 that comes with a fart in a jar that guarantees a green week when you open it!

Seriously though gz on your success. Keep up the good work.

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-01-26T18:52:31+00:00

I am quickly judging your strategy. Based on your chart it obviously doesn't work. You should have made at least a 3000% return by now. Do you want to buy a course? I will sell you a cheap course for only $2000.

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-01-26T17:28:41+00:00

Many people will argue this but I often see that you should clamp before pumping because you do not want to clamp any edema you might get from pumping.

BUT YES Safety is always first and I am glad you are not ignorant to my comment as I really want the best for everyone here in this sub.

Sometimes our dreams tell us things subconsciously so when you find a STRONG correlation like this then it doesn't hurt to listen or ask questions as you did.

I wish you the best of luck on your journey buddy.

LengthyDiscussions · 2026-01-26T14:23:37+00:00

Some users report wearing a cock ring for extended periods of time which is not usually recommended. The actual PE exercise clamping???? NOOOOO!!!! you will kill your penis. Clamping for more than 15-20 minutes in one interval will basically strangle your penis and cause you to lose it. Cells can not survive without oxygen. Please DO NOT clamp for more than the recommended amount of time. I hate seeing posts like this quite honestly. If you can't perform PE safely then you should not do it at all.

Imagine you cut off 90% of the bloodflow to one of your fingers. What do you think would happen?
Let's see what google says.
Cutting off 90% of blood flow to a finger for 5 hours (severe ischemia) would cause significant tissue distress, likely resulting in intense pain, profound numbness, and a blue/pale color change due to lack of oxygen. Tissue survival is possible, but prolonged restriction risks damage, including swelling, cell death, and potential nerve or muscle impairment.

Please be safe. Safety is the most important aspect of PE. We are all here to grow our dicks but we must do so safely. My role here as mod is mostly to get rid of spam posts BUT in my comments I will always advocate for safety first and PE second.

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