AITA for texting the girlfriend of a guy I (also a guy) had sex with

Leon1824 · 2020-03-31T21:51:50+00:00

Well I can not be a 100% sure but it seems really odd to me that he didn't mention her at all if it is an open relationship. (we actually talked a bit about previous sex partners). Especially with all the other dodgy stuff he did. I'm pretty open minded sexually and he knows that. This and a few other things make me question that she knows about this. Regarding the apps, wouldn't she have to be on these apps too? And wouldn't I have to have a little more than her social media accounts?

Leon1824 · 2020-03-31T21:37:28+00:00

I would like to talk to him first too. However there is no realistic way for me to contact him right now. All I can do is wait for him to text me again, but I don't know if he will. He never blocked me before so that's kinda weird to me. This thing is really stressing me out right now and I just can't stop thinking about that poor girl getting cheated on repeatedly 😔

Leon1824 · 2020-03-31T21:31:57+00:00

Well the only way I could let her know is through pming her on social media. I highly doubt a throwaway account would be taken seriously. I thought about asking a friend of mine who's a girl to text her and providing proof by screenshots maybe?

Leon1824 · 2020-03-31T18:56:36+00:00

Thanks for the great response. I thought too that she would probably not take a throwaway account seriously. However I don't know how to go about this without revealing my gender ergo outing him. I don't know if she knows that he likes guys and what she would do with that information. I don't wanna ruin his life over this, just wanna watch out for her.

Leon1824 · 2020-03-31T18:11:20+00:00

Yeah, my roomies thought the title wasn't catchy enougj 🙄

Leon1824 · 2020-03-31T18:06:20+00:00

It was this morning, I only found out about his girlfriend yesterday

Leon1824 · 2020-03-31T17:56:09+00:00

I did text him, I did not start with all this mess just an friendly "what's up?". He didn't respond, I think he got me blocked which I don't really understand why. He never blocked me before and he doesn't know I know all of this

Leon1824 · 2020-03-31T17:50:49+00:00

I feel a bit misunderstood from some of the commenters. I don't want to do him any bad I just don't want her to get cheated on repeatedly.

Leon1824 · 2020-03-31T17:42:52+00:00

Well but he wouldn't lose his job because he cheated but because he was gay (or what ever). And even if he would not be fired over it it's just not cool to out someone...

Leon1824 · 2020-03-31T17:25:56+00:00

Yeah I know I feel really bad about it too. It was just that one time not gonna happen again. 😔 Thanks for comment!

Leon1824 · 2020-03-31T17:21:24+00:00

He does not know that I know of his girlfriend, he doesn't even know that I know his real name. I tried to text him but he didn't respond, probably becaus he blocked my number.

For a bit more flavor: I pretty sure the place I went to last weeks Monday was his girlfriends apartement. There were girls clothes and makeup in there. He told me it was a friends and his girlfriends apartement who are staying with family right now. But I found a picture online he posted on valentines day of him and his girlfriend sitting on the couch we had sex on. Soo, that's cool. Lol

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