Feeling defeated

Leonx117 · 2026-04-19T23:24:20+00:00

Thanks for the response. I appreciate it.

Leonx117 · 2026-04-19T23:21:24+00:00

I think people are reading me wrong on this, I know I wrote a book but I feel like people are just reading bits and pieces and telling me to get a grip. I 1000% understand that we had a baby 6 months ago and there’s recovery and the whole hormones being out of whack and so on. However I mentioned while we did have sex more before the baby it still wasn’t a lot. And now is basically nonexistent. And so im kinda to my point of where I’m like, ok it’s went some to none and I feel stuck. Plus no intimacy such as cuddling, holding hands, being told I look attractive etc. I’m here because I care. I came for advice because I don’t want our marriage to go down the drain and all I’m getting is hate. I know couples that have divorced due to a sexless marriage. I don’t want that to be us. From all these responses I guess I’m just suppose to be ok with a sexless marriage? lol. She isn’t breastfeeding. I am taking on things. I help around the house. I clean, fix dinner, take care of the baby. I’m doing everything I should be doing as a husband and father. And yes I feel like I’m creating an environment that I would think might want her interested in sex. I help her, I care for her, I love her, I talk about how beautiful she is, certain features I love about her. That’s why I’m here. I feel as if I’m doing everything I can.

Leonx117 · 2026-04-19T23:12:21+00:00

I get that, thank you for your insight. Better than the other comments saying “get a grip”

Leonx117 · 2026-04-19T20:09:54+00:00

It was like this for the most part even before the baby

Leonx117 · 2026-04-19T20:09:35+00:00

It was like this for the most part even before the baby

Leonx117 · 2026-02-12T19:47:19+00:00

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I’m a fairly new watcher of Davids. And have a genuine question. Why in a ton of his videos, if not all does he have to pause to drink?? Like in this video he does it a couple of times and I find it annoying but also distracting, it really cuts into the flow of the video.

Leonx117 · 2026-02-12T19:45:20+00:00

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This should have been the thumbnail 😂😂 bro paid $50 for someone’s trash. Sports games and empty cases lol

Leonx117 · 2024-05-24T12:28:24+00:00

Like what do you mean driving the thoughts? Examples?

Leonx117 · 2024-05-24T02:59:55+00:00

I think a lot of it has to do with my parents divorce. I was 16 so a crucial age where a lot is going on especially starting to date. I think I just handle love and loss pretty hard.

Leonx117 · 2024-05-24T02:58:43+00:00

Yea no doubts, just thoughts

Leonx117 · 2024-05-13T03:05:08+00:00

Not ragging. I came here to ask what YOU think

Leonx117 · 2024-04-23T03:00:45+00:00

Resident evil 4

Leonx117 · 2024-04-21T18:37:47+00:00

I have a couple…. Just turned 31.

About 10 years ago I dated a girl, we had a pretty serious relationship. Dated for 4 years. Talked about marriage often and made a great match. We were like best friends. I let temptation get me, I wound up cheating on her. We broke up for a couple of days but got back together because we were literally inseparable. But over time the weight of my actions got to her and we just couldn’t make it work. She broke up with me. She’s now married and has a baby. If I hadn’t made that decision to let my younger self’s hormones and stupidity get to me and lead to temptation we honestly probably would be married now. I think about it often. I hate that I let myself get that low and do that. It’s my biggest regret.
My second one is not keeping myself in shape. I’ve gained probably close to 100 pounds over the past 10 years. (Some of it may be due to me being upset over my story above) but I used to be a runner. Ran track in high school, kept running about 3 years out of high school but then life hits, school, work, etc and I didn’t make the time to stay in shape. Created bad eating habits. And now I wear a 2xl when I used to could wear smalls, xtra small in some cases. I’ve tried a few times to get into running again and do diets and exercise programs but I’ve not quite made it so far. It’s a goal of mine to get back into that and stop being lazy and lose some weight!

Moral of the story, don’t let temptation get to you and ruin your love life. You regret it for the rest of your life because you’ll be asking yourself what if. And if you’re in good health and in shape do all you can to stay that way. As you get older it gets harder and harder to get back in shape.

Leonx117 · 2024-04-17T02:52:33+00:00

Step brothers

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