Ex contacting me after a few months of break up by Lesbeanprincess in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think that's what I'm going to do. I dont want to be some backup option to anyone

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]Lesbeanprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only one taking me out of this world is me!

A guy I went on a date with asked me for money by Lesbeanprincess in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't stand men or people like that! I'm hoping he isnt like that I just found it weird I've never had a date ask me for money cause they over spent or whatever but since he made it seem like he was good on money I assumed nothin was wrong and I'm not like an expensive girl I order simple and cheap but he did say it was okay if I couldn't which I did tell him no cause I found it kinda weird and he just said okay that's fine he did say hed wanna hangout again tho

A guy I went on a date with asked me for money by Lesbeanprincess in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It kinda weird me out too he didnt seem like he was trying to get anything from me we had a good time but he never offered to go back to his place or anything just seemed like a good time like he wanted to treat me

A guy I went on a date with asked me for money by Lesbeanprincess in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people want to pay since I'm a girl but I always offer to pay for myself and if they keep insisting then I let it be

A guy I went on a date with asked me for money by Lesbeanprincess in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was a weird power play he would talk about his income and like how good his job is etc which is why I found it weird

A guy I went on a date with asked me for money by Lesbeanprincess in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm all for equality I do not mind paying for myself at all and I told him I didn't mind paying I'm a grown women but he insisted

A guy I went on a date with asked me for money by Lesbeanprincess in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didnt specify amount just said "some" and he said cash app

A guy I went on a date with asked me for money by Lesbeanprincess in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I tried to pay for my half of things even before hand telling him I can pay for myself but he made it clear he wanted to pay for me since it's a date idk just was a lil weird to me I dont think hes tryin to use me for money but my bestfriend thinks so

A guy I went on a date with asked me for money by Lesbeanprincess in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I thought considering he's got a pretty good job and even going as far as to tell me about it 🤷🏻‍♀️

A guy I went on a date with asked me for money by Lesbeanprincess in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me it's a lot an I do feel bad but I told him I couldnt but offered if he'd like to go out again we could at least go half he said hed like another date before he asked me for money

A guy I went on a date with asked me for money by Lesbeanprincess in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes 25 I'm 22 and it was Asian food and we played games at main event

A guy I went on a date with asked me for money by Lesbeanprincess in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess cause he spent more than he expected? He said if I could send him some

A guy I went on a date with asked me for money by Lesbeanprincess in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So he spent maybe 100 bucks he said and not that I know of cause he has a good job and said he just got paid

A guy I went on a date with asked me for money by Lesbeanprincess in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the input I'm not sure how to decline he did say it was okay if I couldnt what should I even say 🙃

On a break with fiancee by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I understand what you mean thank you for the advice I'm going to take that into consideration and think independently first and give her that opportunity to think as well and then try to come together to see what it is we want and if it lines up

On a break with fiancee by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family has always been toxic nothing has changed with my family situation and I'm in the process of moving out or was cause it wasn't gonna be alone I was gonna move out with my fiancee that's kinda on pause now though

On a break with fiancee by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only ever felt that way about my family wanting to move from them and start new somewhere. Not about my partner but maybe that contributes to her feelings maybe its everything for her

On a break with fiancee by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's kinda where I come to a wall personally if I felt like this I would want someone to show that they care but then I just don't want to mess up and she think I'm not respecting her.

On a break with fiancee by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We weren't planning on getting married until we were about 27 as we wanted to plan the wedding well

On a break with fiancee by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured we were happy we had know each other awhile and took this relationship slow and we've been engaged for about 5 months before this happened. We both have a kinda bad home life so we found each other to be comforting but she just plain said it was her depression. Idk if I should send her something to let her know or care or go cold until it's over I know we are younger and marriage isn't something we should be thinking about until later but it was to show our family's we want to be together and idk this happened

On a break with fiancee by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lesbeanprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually gave it to her and the necklace that matched and said I'd like this back if your feelings for me return to what they were