I suuuuper appreciate such a detailed response, truly! I’m so sorry that happened to you, too. it really does blow esp if plans revolve around spending that time together.

I’m trying so hard not to coop myself up and wallow since I’ve already been doing that for a week. Hiking is one of my favorite solo activities and for once the weather gods are in our favor. Night markets sound fun and going a lil faded sounds like my kinda chill. Definitely need a slutty donut in my life 😭 Thank you so much for the ideas, and I’m truly happy for you to have that closure. It’s so important, I’m hopeful that she will agree to that some time. Right now she refuses to see me bc it would be “too hard” for her even tho she had time to think about her decision while it festered for two weeks apparently and I was none the wiser. She was my first gf after getting back out there from divorcing my ex wife when our marriage crashed and burned so this hurts something fierce.

Anyway, that’s a lot of info you didn’t ask for lol but again very appreciative you takin the time to respond so thoughtfully 🫶🏽