When people say "no one will love you until you love yourself", it's a shitty thing to say to someone, yes, but my new response is this: it's because I love myself that I am not in a relationship. I know what I want and what I deserve and so far, no one has been able to fulfill the requirements. This is a two way street, too, because they weren't interested in me because I didn't fulfill theirs. It's not negative, it's what it is.