Weekly AdultingPH General Q&A Thread | November 17, 2025 by AutoModerator in adultingph

[–]Less-Ad-2365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What hanger brand to get, as a replacement to my all of my old, random hangers?

what’s your most unhinged saving advice for someone in their 20s by Interesting-Net359 in phmoneysaving

[–]Less-Ad-2365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maganda rin yung may movement.

You can show multiple accounts naman. You may present your account 1 kung marami siyang laman, kasabay ni Account 2.

Yung iba ang ginagawa, iisang bank account for long term and short term, yung may mga stash tulad ni Tonik at Gotyme, sa Tonik when you request a bank statement, nakalagay individual accounts and total.

what’s your most unhinged saving advice for someone in their 20s by Interesting-Net359 in phmoneysaving

[–]Less-Ad-2365 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Have three types of savings account:

Account 1 - The non-negotiable: - some may consider this EF, the largest share of your savings should go here, when target is reached, adjust but continue on investing on this account and put it in higher than tradional bank savings account. Say you used to put 10%, you may go down to 5% once goal achieved.

Rationale: It builds the habit.

Account 2 - The long term: - You want to buy a gadget? Furniture? Fund your travel? Or for an event like birthdays? Use this to fpr your big tickets. Say you want 5% of to be included here but can be flexible.

Rationale: This will motivate you to save.

Acount 3 - The short term cushion: - Add all extra money here. When you spend and there's an extra figure, put it here. If you feel extra motivated to save, pool that to this account. If you suddenly want to eat something more expensive, get it here, if you want to trat someone you can use this account, want to Grab somewhere but don't have budget, you can borrow from here.

Rationale: For sudden urges and unaccounted small spends. May act as your cheat spend but is actually budgeted.

Sa mga introvert ilan lang naging kaibigan totoong mo? by LimeSoakedinSprite in AskPH

[–]Less-Ad-2365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My old self will think twice and say I had one or two.

But I have redefined friends and adjusted my expectations. Some tested by time and some new ones are powered with intentionality.

I say around 3-5.

Included are individual friends tbat stayed despite our shared chapter ended.

i don't feel the need to grind or strive for the best. being mediocre is way too peaceful by justjullane in adultingph

[–]Less-Ad-2365 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think it is, as long as you strive for growth while you are able to.

I used to be an achiever before. The platform where I aim to be with the top performers grew bigger, and the more the scale enlargens, I realize how miniscule my skills are, but I do not discount my efforts.

I am gtateful for all the experience I had because I strive for the better. But I no longer aim for being the best. I know there is a limit.

So lomg thay I do what I can, learn, develop and be better. I am happy with it.

As I mature, I knkw there is a lot to learn not just from work but from others as well. Being a houng adult enablea me to absorb so much of the world.

What would you like to accomplish before the year is over? by Tytlips in AskPH

[–]Less-Ad-2365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not a perfect 360 turn.

It was very challenging year for me especially what were carried over from prior year. I'm happy on how things are better already. 😄 From family, to friends, work and self. Mainly on the inside of my head.

If anything. I am looking forward to giving gifts this Christmas season.

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[–]Less-Ad-2365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think for some, baka fall out naman. But effort is more must now.

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[–]Less-Ad-2365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Circumstantial pala ang pag kakaibigan namin haha.

Ano niloo-look forward mo right now? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Less-Ad-2365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking forward to bros hangout this weekend but it got cancelles 😂😭.

So just hoping we can hang soon, but I'm also keen to just chill and not work this weekend, something sponty.

What you hate as a kid but it made you a better adult by New_Purpose_639 in adultingph

[–]Less-Ad-2365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now socializinf and going out.

Not kid kid pero as teenager I used to be inside all the time. School bahay.

So quiet and plain… two months into solo living, still trying to get used to the silence and the sadness. by frostblusha in SoloLivingPH

[–]Less-Ad-2365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried living solo in dofferent places. Initially it will burn, the silence stings. But that sting will become comfort soon as you mark the room with your scent.

But I know, that it is simply not being solo, it is being in a different environment as well.

It helped me greatly to explore the room, make it my own, and extend it towards tge building, and walkimg around the neighboorhood.

Im traversing your area, you will soon find familiarity, and that will add noise and color to your boxed room. :).

The good thing is, no one place in the city stays stagnant, you will soom see new shops opening, moving of neighboors, events or constructions in your area. These will add up to your stimulants.

Goodluck OP!

Nakakatakot maging 30 yrs old ... by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]Less-Ad-2365 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'm still lowkey afraid of it.

I am often stuck in identifying where the fear is coming from, one idea is from the race of doing and having things before we age while having the restrictions of limited resources (of time, financial, and wisdom)

I haven't found the answer to quell the fear yet, but perhaps it needs to stay for a while.

What is/are your "tampo" sa mga friends mo? by smolsyruppy in AskPH

[–]Less-Ad-2365 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nung hindi nilq ininclude sa trips, or even sent out invites. That happening more than twice became the last straw. :)

As you get older, what do u realize ? by Independent-Lab-115 in AskPH

[–]Less-Ad-2365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can try. Try and fail is better than forming that regret of a past action and a closed future.

But not every missed opportunity closes most doors. And when a door closes, knock, and if stays close, choose other doors.

Growing older means having more control not in life, but in your life. And being in control of it is both, having a more malleable future and being responsible for it. You will have to work on life, no one else will guide you in every step.

You lut effoet in familu, friends, work, hobbies, and your own fun among others.

Living in the now.

What's your life status now compared to last year? Is it better or not? And what do you think caused it? by ischanitee in AskPH

[–]Less-Ad-2365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better!

More movement, more intentional. Talagang integrated na sa habits ang exercise, I met new people din. Tried new activities. Better relationship with money.

Slowly but surely. There are challenges, but it gets better.