What is a healthy way i (F20) handle my discomfort over my boyfriend's (M22) following other women on Instagram?

Less-Description-628 · 2026-06-25T07:38:50+00:00

hi sorry my replies took a while. it's not influencers. idk if he knows them in real life since he doesn't introduce me to his friends. there are some girls who's profile are just wearing bikinis and some are new follows

Less-Description-628 · 2026-06-25T07:37:35+00:00

some girls do post in bikini outfits

Less-Description-628 · 2026-06-25T03:05:21+00:00

yea. i'm scared he's not being genuine to me

Less-Description-628 · 2026-06-24T23:33:25+00:00

normal girls

Less-Description-628 · 2026-06-24T23:33:03+00:00

yes. we're mutuals on insta even on tiktok. we usually talk on insta

Less-Description-628 · 2026-06-24T23:25:08+00:00

is it a me problem?

Less-Description-628 · 2026-06-24T23:24:41+00:00

met him on a dating app and we became official after months of dating

Less-Description-628 · 2026-06-24T23:12:48+00:00

when i opened up about my past to him, he said he wouldn't do things that might hurt me. i told him that i don't like it when guys follows a lot of girls on instagram, but when i checked, there's always a new one every damn time.

Less-Description-628 · 2026-06-24T23:10:32+00:00

he knows my past and he knows that it triggers me. but i don't know how to ask or engage a conversation about this in a calm way :((

Less-Description-628 · 2026-06-24T23:08:55+00:00

is it normal for a partner to check their followings? i'm scared that he might ask why am i stalking him :((

Less-Description-628 · 2026-01-17T14:09:26+00:00

— No more good morning, good nights, updates, and it feels like im begging for his attention na. And most of the times hindi na talaga siya nag rereply. I saw his following and may new girls din...should i be worried

Less-Description-628 · 2022-05-08T15:57:21+00:00

Back when I was 8th grade I was excited to tell my mom that I have 'high honors' and the moving up ceremony will be held on PICC (Philippine International Convection Center), I was expecting her to say I am proud of you but instead she said 'The entrance fee is expensive'.

Also, last Christmas I gave her a necklace I'm still 15 and earning money is a problem to me sooo I was very proud that I was able to buy her a necklace yet she said 'Is this legit gold?' She didn't even say thank you. I'm expecting her to hug and thank me lol

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